Thread: Husband is a nurse and works night shifts only (by his choice) & may be cheating...=(

I have heard before that nurse's are some of the most sexual women there is. This is from a source that should know it...Being in the field, they constantly are aware of the sexual parts of people and jokes can arouse the sexual feelings that are TRYING to stay dormant. It was a nurse that years ago in our marriage when he was going to school, that every night he was at class tried to get him to go out with her....I vaguely remember him saying something but that was years ago and I was too young and not aware of the sexual power that my man held over women. In other words I was st*pid. He did not go out with her and I thank God for this every day. This and a more powerful situation by a woman have rocked my boat just realizing that I could have lost him. I only found out about this about 10 months ago.

Women are hot and horny. When my husband had surgery within the last ten years, a young nurse said this to me. I had told my husband to cover himself before he got up. She said that many of us nurse's don't wear underwear either, so not to worry. She was young and stu*id and hot. He was high on morphine and played right into her hands. For that I just about castrated him when he got home. You see he, too, is a hunk....

We just found out about a friend of ours that we have known for a long time. His wife is a nurse. She works night shifts too. They have four children probably ages 9 to 20. She is very attractive and he is a neat and nice guy. They are getting a divorce. It has torn him apart. She decided not to stay true to her marriage vows and play house with someone else.

I think the quiet of the hospital.....The neat outfits they wear.....And the horny women all contribute to the for the women of these men.....All the good looking Dr. Kildare type and let's face it most of us women fell in love with our OB's to start. If they were good looking, like mine was, you would be back there pregnant within a year....I know, I was ....

It is so hard when you love them to death but the rest of the world does too....Maybe doing private work or take away the temptations.....When a man is young and good looking and so few of them around, I feel for you.....I hope all works out for you.....

While I certainly understand you suspecting him possibly cheating (because of past events) also keep in mind that it's possible that he may just prefer the shift. My sister has been a nurse for over 20 years and for quite a number of those years she has worked the evening shifts because she said that it was a slight bit easier/quieter because not much went on at night with the patients sleeping.

Don't blame everything on him...So much of it is the fault of the women that want him....I know this from just leading my own life with my husband....They are just plain sexually hungry and he is in a hot job with temptations coming out his ears....

With too many women... each man is fair game.....I sure found this out...

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

Don't blame everything on him...So much of it is the fault of the women that want him....I know this from just leading my own life with my husband....They are just plain sexually hungry and he is in a hot job with temptations coming out his ears....

With too many women... each man is fair game.....I sure found this out...

But the blame WOULD be all on him if he cheated (def. not saying he is!). HE has a responsibility to his wife- the other woman does not, even though decency would dictate she should.

Originally Posted by Fallen1

While I certainly understand you suspecting him possibly cheating (because of past events) also keep in mind that it's possible that he may just prefer the shift. My sister has been a nurse for over 20 years and for quite a number of those years she has worked the evening shifts because she said that it was a slight bit easier/quieter because not much went on at night with the patients sleeping.

I'm not a nurse, but I have to agree. I worked at night for a few years. It was tiring, but I did it because it was quieter, for the extra pay, and because it freed up my days for other things that I wouldn't normally be able to do if I worked during the daytime. I don't know if any of these things would apply to your husband, but I think that most nurses (at least the one's that I know who work in hospitals) are too busy running between patients making sure they get their meds and treatments on time, and at night there are fewer staff to care for the patients. My sis-in-law complained about all of the paperwork she would have to keep up with, because everything is documented and if someone misses a treatment or a dose of medicine, someone will want to know why. Intensive care, I think, would be one department where a nurse has to be totally into his or her patients. I would imagine it would be difficult for a nurse to carry on an affair during work hours, even at night. Outside of work is another story.

I am not talking about an affair at the hospital but meeting each other...The nurse I talked about who made the wise remark was probably a Practical Nurse and the words should have never been spoken but they were. To me the people working at a hospital seem to be very close.

Yet going there you look at them like some kind of God like people. They have the power of life and death. Simple folks become something that they aren't. A married man is simply a man. Maybe the same as it is everywhere only they wear the neat clothes that will turn a head and just maybe make a heart skip a beat if the guy is good looking.

This can put a man who is innocent in a rough place for he is put on a pedestal that he has not even created and made special without knowing it. I guess I have always looked at doctor's and nurse's as pretty special people because they control my life....

I am sure I am all wet on this thread so I will retire and lick my wounds....Sorry....