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I was on a cancer thread tonight, and i told her, i wish and hope caroline reads this as she has experienced those doctors.Originally Posted by CarolineWH
A "story" to me is a journey a story of the truth, a story of hope and a story that is like when i want to read a book of the "truth". Just like i told this person, i will not answer her question now, she has one: in my opinion and i am deeply happy for her, forgiven her husband and moved on, infidelity is not an issue yet she " highlighted it", i have also read where she has stated, i would be interested to know if your husband ever cheated on you, as you think with logic, ie:- bet you haven't been cheated on. My response in retrospect was this, she has been married, 4 years? I was in a realtionship for 12, and was cheated on... I do know feelings as much as i know that "feeling" still i won't judge. The thread she is referring to, we both wrote a comment on, we both felt for this woman, and not the answer this person wrote. SHe has stated that she feels that about "women" regardless. This means, that she has forgiven her husband but not the woman or any woman that dares to have an affair with a married man, it is their fault. I refrained, like you from answering, my "feelings"... I do not judge... it is not my right... And i watch this particular thread, grow and get out of that rut and i feel proud, at what stage do you CW and recall what you wrote and maybe agree she sees anger as i said about women, not what her man did..... i re-read it.....
Lastly, i never referred to you, i said " others" and the again reason was because, i do not wish to answer this woman anymore. In my opinion she is judging, she as we have, has not appologised for her words to that thread, whilst i wrote to that thread and said, do not judge her, she is hurt, she has stated, i won't take it back. I never believed in a woman having an affair with another woman. Again, i ask that you read your response.
So, i hope that you can see, i again, admire you, i am of my own opinion, but nothing you have ever written is in my eyes, wrong, as i do not judge, unless you attack me.
Story:- Yes, from reading hers, she is not of interest what so ever over what happened. She doesn't care, what he did. She does feel, in my opinion upset over what that woman did, but all she wants to know is " so how do i make him desire me and me him as i can't think of him at all sexually. Listen to other's stories,, they are better than me, why? Because yours is in the now, mine is in the past and because frankly, she believe's i have never been cheated on, and poses the question, and i'm just not willing to answer to this thread anymore.
Hope i clarified that better and frankly this is where it ends.
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