DH and I went through all this and he became less and less interested in sex. And less interested in everything to be honest. He zoned out watching TV or other non creative things which for him was odd. He also started falling asleep during the day.

He felt lots of anxiety over work. Less able to make up his mind and was pretty crabby about just about everything. He went to talk to his doctor and she told him "Mental depression" *Probably... But she checked his Thyroid (ok) and did blood tests to check his hormones (NOT ok) He went on a drug called Androgel (Google it they have a test you can take to see if he might have the same problem) and he started smiling more. Got doing things more. Became less angry at everything and after a while even started to be interested in sex again. Like... to the point I was pinching myself. Who is this guy? But in a nice way.

If you don't do anything else rule out a medical reason. In his case it was not "man-o-pause" he had another issue but MANY men do have declining hormones and get feeling like this. Its a simple fix *A daily rub of this gel in the morning.

Hope that helps!

- p