Thread: I'm so confused!!

First of all, your husband deserves to know the truth about how you feel. No matter what you decide. If you want to try to fall back in love with him, then you need to give him a chance to help by letting him know that there is a problem. You don't want to live a life of dishonesty and deceat. You will feel much better about yourself when you can be truthful about your feelings.

You need to decide what is best for you. If you do not think that you will ever love your husband again or that happiness is unlikely with him, then you should start to move on and let him know that is what you intend to do. But do this for yourself and NOT for the second man. It sounds like the situation with the second man is unsure so do not make your decision based on what might or might not happen with him. If you leave your husband and move out, do it with the intention of possibly being on your own again. We both know things may not work out with the other guy, but don't let that hold you back from going out and finding love and happiness again. There are plenty of men out there to make you happy if things don't work out with these two. Life it too short to settle for less!

But most importantly is to be honest with yourself and honest with those two men.