Hello everyone, I am a 42 year old woman, with a new fiance and a 9 year old daughter. I was married for 6 years, then divorced him in 2001. I did not date at all for 7 years, until I met my fiance. Now I am having to relaern how to have an adult relationship and it is very difficult for me. I am looking forward to reading your post to see if it is just me or do other women have these problems.