Thread: Hi all!!!

Hi everyone, I am 35 years old and a virgin. I was brought up to fear sex and I was taught to wait for marriage before doing the evil deed. The problem is I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, now my fiance, for 5 years and we are getting married next month. I am so scared. Se has had multiple partners in the past and I fear she will laugh at me and want a divorce before the the honeymoon is over.

Any advice on how to please my soon to be wife would be greatly appreciated.

If she's agreed to wait 5 years without having sex with you, chances are she isn't that interested in it in the first place so you should be fine.

There is no way I'd be marring someone that I had not had sex with or lived with. I'm sorry. But what happens if you find out you are completely sexually incompatible? What happens if you find out that there are things that she does that you can just not stand? I'm sorry...but if after 5 years you hadn't given it up.....I would not be marrying you...period...end of story.