Thread: Struggling Newie

Hi Al.. My name is Nancy. I am 46 years old and just found out that I am in the full swing of menopause. This has come as a complete shock to me. Looking back, I have had symptoms for a while but ignored them because I thought I was too young. I have never had children but have always wanted them (unfortunately I chose the wrong men so never married). I am devastated. Although I know 46 is old to have a child, I was still hopeful. Now all hope is lost. I do not want to adopt a child as a single parent. I see a therapist and psychiatrist for depression and have for years - so I take meds. This revelation has completely thrown me for a loop. I feel suddenly feel old (an constantly told I look closer to 30 than 40), sad, washed-up, etc. Can anyone relate and perhaps offer some words of wisdom? Thanks for listening. xoxo

Hello there and welcome to WH. Glad you found us. There are many women here who are going through or have gone through menopause. Under Physical and Mental Health there is a board just for Menopause. At times, traffic here is heavier than others so if you don't immediately get a response, don't feel ignored, just know that someone will come across your message eventually and either have something to share or will read your post and be helped by it.

Check out the other boards as well, there are so many topics here. If you have any questions let me know.