Hmm. Where to start. I am 25 and I am about 60 pounds over my healthy weight. I am 4 feet 11 inches and I weigh about 172. For my height I should weight from 97lbs to no more than 115lbs. I am very unhappy. I used to be the bubbly girl who was the life of the party. Now I find myself not wanting to go anywhere not wanting to see anyone. When I do actually get out I feel like the ugliest girl out there. I don't want men to talk to me and I don't want them to even look at me. I don't even look in the mirror. I have never been skinny and I don't want to be. I want to be healthy. I don't want to have diabeties. I need some motivation. I just want to be happy with myself. I need help.

I'm so sorry, love. I feel for you. I've never been skinny either and I don't want to be, but being healthy does sound quite amazing. There is a weight-loss and fitness subforum here. Just check it out whenever you get a chance and I'm sure there will be something or someone there that can help you. It might just give you a much needed confidence boost. ^_^

If you ever need to talk to someone, just message me. I'll listen.

And welcome.