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Old 09-04-2008, 12:54 PM
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No. There are good ones out there, you just have to really look hard for them.
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Really? What if theyre boring, immature and generally annoyed you the whole date - would you not find the date a complete waste of time?
The whole date?

Well I typically dont take women on "dates". Because date imply paying for a ladys attention and time. Setting her as the prize and me not worthy. However i do spend time with women that i find interesting in one way or another. For me I believe in the saying "Every friend you have was once your stranger" So why not get to know a stranger that I find interesting in one way or another.

For example. If i see a girl at the book store that i think will bring light to my day. I will approach her and take her to the coffee shop across the street for some possible stimulating conversation and a few good laughs. To me this qualifies as a "date." One may call it an instant date.

Dating as you put it is a (3+ hour event) will only happen when I believe that the girl is worth my time, and is qualified. Beauty is not a qualification.

I have dated around enough to know that my "List" of character traits is possible to find in women. However its just as rare as finding a man that is confident, emotionally stimulating and has some backbone.

Hope this helps

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Old 09-04-2008, 01:09 PM
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Well I typically dont take women on "dates". Because date imply paying for a ladys attention and time. Setting her as the prize and me not worthy. However i do spend time with women that i find interesting in one way or another. For me I believe in the saying "Every friend you have was once your stranger" So why not get to know a stranger that I find interesting in one way or another.
Yup, this makes sense. I realise that the way my definition of a 'date' came across old fashioned and vague.

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For example. If i see a girl at the book store that i think will bring light to my day.
Interesting...so what defines a woman that will bring light to your day? Im being nick-picky i know....

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No. There are good ones out there, you just have to really look hard for them.
Really, really hard and make a fair few mistakes on the way.
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Really, really hard and make a fair few mistakes on the way.
Indeed.
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Interesting...so what defines a woman that will bring light to your day? Im being nick-picky i know....
Well Miff, there is really no need for you to know because your on the opposite side of the globe. haha j/k

Well its rather simple, she needs to demonstrate one of the qualities that i find attractive. A bright smile will result in a 100% chance she will be approached. Its not that hard but it is rare to see.

Me I always look like this

After all life is what you make it. So why not make it fun!

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I find the wrost kind of women are:
Superficial
Materialistic
Bossy
Gold diggers
Judgemental
these are the trates I can not stand.
There is a difference between attraction for some, but so many people let alone women prejudge.
So many women demand a certain salery from a guy. Have any of you been on a site and it asked about salery and the women has down over 100k a year.
First off if you love someone, money doesn't matter. You have to make a living and afford a home but why a certain salery. Love has no dollar value, its all in the heart and how each treat each other etc.
So many women want that tall dark handsome QG kinda of guy. ok so you date him, if anything happened like an accident and he know has a scared face are you going to leave him b/c he isn't so perfect anymore?
materialistic people, does it really matter the size of the home or car one drives. Again with todays economy, are you going to leave him b/c his job laid him off and the mortgage is late.
This some of the stuff that bugs me. But it says how shallow people can be.
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Undatable mmmm


No confidence
No charisma
Asks stup1d questions on-going
First question tries to work out if i live 10 minutes or 45 away
Calls me babe WT? I don't know you
Eyes wander the whole conversation - on me off course but not my eye
Talks about himself the whole time then tells me he really likes me can we date again

No No Ah FuCETis my answer to dating those un-datables....
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