There is always one, isnt there?!

Im not vulnerable, neither do i want to be Mr Physcoanalysis . Its undoubtably the latter part of the evaluation.

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Originally Posted by Livelaughlove Not all the things we laugh at are actually funny.

So wrong, i couldnt laugh at something that wasnt funny, instead i like to make people feel awkard that their remark wasnt funny at all.

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Originally Posted by Livelaughlove People like to be vulnerable. Men and women. Thats why women typically laugh at jokes when a man she finds attractive tells them.

Pfft, im beginning to doubt you. Maybe im just an exception from the norm. I couldnt imagine anything worse (okay, i can) than being vulnerable. Maybe im just cold hearted , but there is noway i would want to feel vulnerable in front of anyone.

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Originally Posted by Livelaughlove Biting your bottom lip is a indication that you had a "guilty thought".

hahahha, im filthy.

Sure you do



Deny it all you want its the truth

Mimicking works quite well, but not like copying their every move! Simple things like crossing your legs when they do or drinking when they do, but keep eye contact sort of thing

worked with me and my S/O
Because i'd never had a good relationship I didn't expect anything to come of it so he was my body language experiment at first...and it turns out I fell in love!
Silly things like if your in a group of people and your laughing, just as the laughs dying down sort of chuckle to yourself then look up and catch their eye whilst your holding the remnants of a cheeky smile and your eyes are still smiling too but you don't look like this

If I'm interested in someone, a genuine smile will melt my heart

Man... What is it with you Men? I write quickly it doesn't make sense, you pick me up on it and want me to re-write?

Body Language comes in all forms, interesting, as I mentioned two things, Prince Charles playing with his cuff links and a guy moving close to me, being attentive...

I haven't past this post yet, well how could I your mean but I am guessing that it will all relate to "mating" or "dating" ...

When I first started dating, I went on-line as well off course, onto a dating site, then I started googling various things that I thought I may need to be wary of, having been married for over 7 years and fresh into this new world all over again, dating/mating.

This guy that I "dated" tried the "mating", move close in that being sit forward, hold eye attention, compliment, tried pitty, and it triggered immediately something I had read.

As a result, I googled more the next day, and laughed it was the classic "How to Seduce a Woman in 5 minutes" I think it was 5 minutes or first date and it listed 1 - 10, of what to do, he did the 1-10 all except winning and getting me to the "mating" bed .. haha is that better?

CW

It may have been a sign of him being nervous. With body language you should never read 1 BL cue at a time you have to do them in groups.


This is called proximity. Have you ever been in a place where you found a man attractive, and ended up at one point being within 10 ft from him with your back towards him.

Its an instinctual mechanism that is forcing you to maneuver yourself to a place in where he it will be easy for him to strike up a conversation.

Human beings simply pay attention to what we value. its that simple.

Too bad this is all against courtship rules. You should never sit forward, it conveys that she is more important to you. You should never hold eye contact, however you maintain it until she breaks it first then look at other stuff. After all there is a world beyond this one girl. Never compliment a girl unless she deserved it. AND NEVER ABOUT HER LOOKS. Its shallow and insincere. Pitty... Common do i even have to say anything.

Something you read? Was it how to be a complete moron and go home empty handed.

how to seduce women in 5 min. Sounds like a sales pitch. Because women are much more complicated then that. There is no magic pill.


hope this helps

Live laugh love

This was some 10 months ago, lol...

I think he was a jerk and went home doing that...

That's interesting regarding never reading one body language cue, but rather in groups..

A bit like don't judge a book by it's cover either.

The thing that triggered lll, was on the dating sight there was advertising, much like everywhere off course, but stup1dly, one constant one that would pop up was "the art of seduction" now.... I see that word as being sexual seduction, how to use your body language, clothes, hair, messages to seduce your partner and make him feel hot and heated haha. But, unfortunately it was based on "pick up artists" having read it and yes, therefore, it sent triggers.

You have to remember, and I am sure you come across this alot, back then I had been out of the dating game for over 7 years, but it's like riding a bike it all comes back to you and the more you observe, the more knowledge you gain...

Think that I am very switched on with the difference these days.

Thanks for the added tips, as I say, we are never too old to learn.

CW