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    Got to watch those situations with an ex. Could you invite her do something special with you before and make plans for a day or two later? I have a feeling this may lead to a bit of misery, first because you are expecting him to do something to make you unhappy and second because you are planning to essentially have someone play 'bf'.

    This is all headtripping. Now I now this is my personal belief but for what it's worth: Significant events such as a holiday which is a date of change, which the new year is (so are Bdays) should be spent in a way the reflects what you want for the coming year. Spending it playing defensive mind games isn't healthy for you. It doesn't signify a good start to your year. Do something that will be fun with no looking over your shoulder. Checking out the ex's reaction or putting yourself in a situation where a few drinks too many and you may be playing more with Mr for hire bf than you intended. While getting laid may do you a world of good, it should be with intension and awareness. Not a default, not revenge and not involving someone else who may not really know the score.

    Of course you have to do what is best for you.

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    Very Good Advise WC,

    Hey Ace, you can Rock, I know you can cause you have!

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    I HATE MEN...okay...not all of them...but why does my EX have to be like this??
    I dont get it...grrr.
    So Im going to go alone, and I am going to be myself....it has been decided...thanks W.C. for the great advice...its a time to think of what I am able to achieve in the future, and to forget the past...!!!!!

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    TODAY WORK SUCKED MONKEY NIPPLES....My boss was a complete furry tuna taco and I wanted to just...spit on her. My co-worker likes to freaking pick on me..and I was ready to THROW STUFF and quit. Like...I try my HARDEST, and it feels like it isn't enough....

    I hate this....

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    I know you promised your pal you would go, but being at a party with a ex present is fraught with problems. If you are going to go, I think you should have a date.

    Being there by yourself will only make you feel worse and think "why is he having so much fun and here I am alone..."

    Best option would be to have a date and go to a completely different party. Or if your friend is the one throwing it, she should un-invite your ex.

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    I wish she could un-invite him...but we all went to school together...but whatever...I'll go, either with a date, or without....i'll deal with it.

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    NEW DAY
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    I am sick...I have a sore throat, a headache, and chills....kill me.
    I hate being sick...I become such a big BABY....
    Its saturday here, I have Sunday off...then Monday, I go back to work...ewwwwwww. HELP

    Oh...did I mention my sister has moved back in with us for a bit???
    my stress level went from a 2...to a 20.....

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    Default Good day

    I HAD SUCH A GOOD....but bad...DAY!!!

    I have a cold, right? So I sounded like Nicole Ritchie...lol. And My boss and I were talking about our sales rep...and I asked her if he was seeing anyone, or married...and she said "no, he doesnt even have a pet"

    ...:d:d:d:d:d....DING DING...
    Im soooo making my move.
    I've never been attracted to red-heads...but he's pretty sexy!!!
    ...

    and...I have a BIG PIMPLE, right in between my eyes.......ggrrrrrrr

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    Ace sometimes you are so funny, you may not mean to be, but I do love you. I can feel your angst.
    You are growing and expanding your horizons and you just go for it with the sexy redhead! I've recently found out just how sexy bald or balding can be! Ya learn something new all the time.

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    Hey Lak, WC just said you and I, which are balding are sexy guys, that's nice to know, nice compliment huh?

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    Aceeeeee... heeeeheee.

    WC said what I have said... you are funny. way.

    keep sharing...


    In-need? All men do at some time, almost and most women these days are as well, oops almost,

    It's life, doesn't matter and is endearing.... Kind of makes a man a man...

    CW
    Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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    okay day...
    my I think my friends boyfriend may like me...she was talking to her ex-man...and her boyfriend got jealous, and then RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME....asked her how she would feel if he was to hit on me, and ask me out....boy was I red...lmao.
    Im glad I make you guys laugh...I was just always told to tell the truth...
    good news...the pimple has shrunk down to nothing...**whew**
    I was beginning to look like I had 3 eyes.
    and...I FOUND A GREY HAIR TODAY...i almost cried....im 19...Im too young to find grey hair....

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