Thread: Reply To Vent

This was bro't out in someones post but; i get so aggravated at this road rage stuff. what in the world makes the difference for one to blow up over 1, nothing or 2, very little.

It just blows my mind when i'm driving down the road and someone shakes their fist at me blows their horn and then flys by like they are in the indy 500. I'm shaking my head, like what did i do. Absolutley nothing, i know really they are just kicking the cat, if you know what i mean.
But, it seams as tho alot of people are kicking the cat nowadays. Many people seem to be severely stressed out.
It does not change how i feel about it tho. Sometimes when at the stop light i want to slowly get out of my car, tap on the guys window and then begin to rip his head off - thank you!

Now Crzyred i have to make a remark on your thingy about the hair being up - Did you ever think you may not look good with your hair up? Ha! lol.

Really, you probably look nice. but some women just don't look as nice, it changes your whole appearance.

My wife, I like her hair up, she looks very nice the way she does it. she's very good at it. She's done it for so long she can do it so many ways and that's another reason i like it - she can be a woman of many faces to me. Maybe you should try other styles. You probably have not found the one that gives you that specific sex appeal (attractiveness)you may be looking for.
On the other hand, i'm like LLL, when one lets her hair down is just says something that i feel is God given to a woman, a warmth about it. I won't go into all that -

Gut instincts: Should you always trust them?

I am going to rant and rave if you allow me. This morning I found out something. Yes it is a personal matter and it bothers me a lot. I’ll try to be brief but bare with me.

I had a mutual friend who was dating this guy. And she was alright at the time as friends go because we didn’t hang out a lot but talked when we ran across each other. She confided in me about the guy she dated and we dealt with those things that come up with dating people. Well, she introduced me to one of her friends and we hit off very well. We talked on the phone for hours at a time, started to go out and then dated. We both fell in love and a relationship started. Everything was going extremely well for the both of us. We never fought or argued.
As I am not going to go into every detail or events, but she went out one night with her friends. which I have no problem. And my g/f was texting me that this mutual friend was acting like an idiot and trying to get with this guy. That is when the problem started. Then next day, when we talked it was like pulling teeth. It was the first time we had trouble talking. I thought ok, it must be one of those times when there isn’t much to say and let it be. So in less than 2 days we broke up.
I was ignored like I never existed from that point on. I tried to talk to the ex and all I ever got was texts. This mutual friend had told me that everything was my fault, down to asking her out, getting her number, going out for lunch or dinner to just liking her. I was told that she never liked me and she felt obligated to be with me. I was given all the excuses that made no sence!
So my gut tells me there is more to this story, and it had to be this mutual friend had a big part of it.
Come to find out this morning I was right. I was told by a co-worker that this mutual friend is dating another guy and it was all because the night she went out with my then g/f. and the kicker is for her to get with this guy, my ex had to date his friend.
So should you always trust your gut instincts?