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    Default So it seems I just split up a 7 year relationship.

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    So, basically I was on this course, and I wound up sleeping with my tutor last friday... Who's been with her man for 7 years.

    Anyway, I just got a phone call saying she's now single... I mean she came about 20 times but seriously? Well, it seems she wants me / is guilty about it and her relationship is over (not my intention).

    So now, she's going to be persuing me, when all it really was to me was some good flucking - I don't want her to be my girlfriend...... So, I guess I feel a bit bad about that one.

    Why can't there just be sex without consequences ...

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    Haha, that's rich :3
    Seems to me that your tutor already had relationship problems. If she didn't, would she be flirting up a storm with a student? You became the catalyst and now she's gonna focus all that "Oh jeez I don't have a boyfriend what do I do" energy on you.
    Come on, at the worst it's just going to be awkward. It's not like she's known you long enough to be "in love." Don't let your conscience get to you. If you do, you simply won't be the Anon we know anymore.

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    Why can't there just be sex without consequences ...
    Well you shouldn't have "flucken" slept with someone who was in a relationship.

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    20 times in one night? no wonder she flucking left him...

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    damd... I missed that one No1, 20 times ....k..... ahha....

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    I didn't miss it and yes no wonder, I was going to say the same thing,

    Anon she don't have to be your girlfriend of course, I mean, I know you know that, you can certainly let her know if you haven't already, and why not go back for more, ha It appears she wants it right, Doesn't mean it has to be a steady thing right. Maybe I'm too raw about it!

    She broke it up with her ex, not you, she had the choice to stay and work it out.

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    You tart!

    What happened to my racist woman? I was waiting on that threesome

    Was i meant to laugh btw?

    Yeah, its not really your fault and she probably had realtionship issues beforehand. However, maybe next time you do something like that you should think about not being 'that' good, that way she wont become as attached.

    Tell her straight, no point in dragging it out. Good luck melon head.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miffed23 View Post
    You tart!

    What happened to my racist woman? I was waiting on that threesome
    Seeing her on thursday...

    Yeah, it's not like it's all me, I just don't want some huge black guy chasing me around. I mainly posted it because it was funny rather than it being an 'issue' or whatever.

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    yes you have said you cant meet women and you have more girls than cassanova, did you give the tutor that line - maybe it started out as a pity fluck!

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    Oh dear. You were out of line IF you knew she was in a relationship. But she certainly knew it. Can't speak for all women but for myself (and it seems most of my gfs) if I'm happy with a man, in a caring place (even if I'm on the shelf) other men are just people. I may notice them but there is no possiblity of any serious interaction or sexual action.

    I would advise to steer clear of a repeat. She's obviously vulnerable and has made an emotional transfer to you. Not a healthy thing to do.

    Nothing is without consequences, nothing happens without a reason.
    What was she tutoring anyway?

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