What constitutes a "Soul Mate"
I am curious.
So many settle, or, believe the last person was their soul mate, or understand the concept................
To me?
To find your soul mate is to know yourself, 100%...To be happy with whom you are internally and externally.
To not be paranoid thinking something is your fault? There never is a fault rather discussion so both understand each other.
It's to be in sinc with each other's mind, and it's knowing the soul of each other before anything else.............and being able to communicate, understand, be willing to try and experience, experiment and be............
And to you?
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
ME!
Seriously,
Dr. Paul (Dating Expert and Confidence Guru) has a brilliant explanation for finding your Soul Mate, Or what constitutes a soul mate... I haven't reviewed his material in some time... Ill come back tomorrow with a brief explanation of his views after i revisit them.
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CW, this is wasy for me but do not know if i can word it correctly.
a soulmate is the person who you know, understand, confide in, trust, and so much more. they are your everything. you do not have to have a conversation everyday of all topics, you can just be together, cuddle and know that the other is there with and for you. words are words spoken and they do mean alot, but sometimes just being together without words, as cuddling, holding hands, and just being around each other is worth more and just as important.
a souldmate understands that you are an individual and needs time to your self every now and then. they know you love them and do not need to be croweded. they are comfortable with everything in the realtionship. they are you equal as you not. they can fill your sentances, know if your thirsty without asking, feed you if your hungry without you asking. almost as if they read your mind and reading thiers.
as you said, you are in sinc with each other. there is a difference from being generous and nice or polite from being in sinc and in love or meeting your soulmate. the difference is alot but is easy to overlook. its hidden and everyone will have a difference of opinions. as much as you have in common you have equally the same not in commin. but that doesnt deter either of you. you can have your arguments or disagreements and just know everything will be fine after you both vent ot state your opinions.
dont knowif this makes sence or not, but as newtons law states every action has a reaction and its equal............well so does love and people.
your actions with another person will have a reaction in some way. some good and some bad, but your soulmate knows all this of you as you are the same but yet different. and is understanding in everything thing that you both do and say.
again you a re in sinc and in love with each other is probably the best to describe it in my eyes. and i do believe in soulmates as in every pot has its lid, just have to fine the lid that fits best.
An affinity of love, spiritual, sex, intimacy. I have to admit that I researched it a little because I didn't feel I could write how I felt and this does!
For those of us that look for this in it's truest sense, it's our other half that makes us complete in a relationship.
A twin soul or twin flame.A wonderful thing to have in my book. I so much desire to have this! It's really my greatest desire.
Soulmates enhance who and what each are. They bring out the best in each other, support and uplift. When one is down the other helps raise them up. They have balance in the relationship - that's not equality so much as supporting each other's strengths and minimizing each other's weaknesses. They may share strengths but also one is strong where the other is weak is that united they are stronger still.
Soulmates are able to trust each other absolutely, and to know that they are trusted. They can be honest and help each other grow because they come from a place of love. They can stand strong alone just knowing the other will be there when they are ready.
They can see each other truly and love each other's flaws as well as perfections.
WC, I think this is a very important aspect to being a soulmate, this part takes true Love! this provides and open door for being open in a greater way!Originally Posted by WildChild
2008 thread haha, LLL you never came back and answered me,
And, so I bring it up again.
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I'm not going to make any other comment besides this one. I'm just going to take credit for this thread coming back to life, lol. That's all... I'm leaving now.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
Well Linds, your thread must have been in my mind, as to why I "clicked" on it to start with, then I saw LLL's comment be back tomorrow. I mean WT? 1 year later? I'm still waiting haha.
You may take credit madam.... that's all... lol.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Perhaps he found "the answer" and it was so enthralling that he couldn't tear himself away?
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
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