Thread: wat r men in indian homes?

I am a 25 year old woman.... people might wonder y at an age wen a woman is supposed 2 b attracted towards

men r writing so...no ur guess is wrong..its not luv... it's the male chauvinistic behaviour... wait i know u might b

thinking...yeh tats common...men r like tat...just like how women r fidgety & nagging... its not the usual

behaviour i am talking abt the worst cases..mainly its impact on women....women frm our generation r well-off

but wat abt women who belong 2 our parents generation. there r many who hv been married before they hv

even completed schools.... they take in marriage n their in-laws place as their home. They hv not much

contacts wit their families too very simple reason her husband wouldn't like it....they wld if her journey 2 her

mother's place is a source of gud money ( both in terms of future property r goods)... there r really very rare

husbands who send their wife's home just like tat...even if it so it wil b not even once a year...yeh its true they do

think of wonderful reasons for it along wit their moms....since she doesn't go home often she has to get settled

here & she expects her in-laws 2 treat her & luv her as a daughter...but our gr8 MILs r not interested in tat &

moreover they complaint 2 their sons over trivial mistakes....these men ( even after 25yrs of marriage) stil

under their moms thinking line...they do & they c the world like tat....cum & shout at her...they do...may b al those

physical harrassments dont mind for the simple reason tat they r frm the so-called "elite orthodox middle class

families". they go on harrassing her wit words tat by the time she completes 20yrs of her married life she is

mentally unstable.... after all she is a human n she needs appreciation r atleast respect for her own

feelings...As a human grows older one wld expect intelligence n maturity...but tats not the case wit such

women................they become blank n sometimes they shout.....they lose their agility..... its al coz the one n only

family n the man whom she th8 was the world doesnt recognize her as a HUMAN. worst is : children by this

time who r matured realise they owe the state of their mother 2 their father. they try 2 point out & protect their

mother ...result.... father blames the mother tat she has poisoined their mind & they nomore hv respect for HIM.

its atrocious...dont u think so????P.S : this is commonly found in homes where the wife is not working nor she

gets any help frm her parents & her brothers r not wel-off...they say respect comes wit the job & the salary u

earn.......its true...true especially in the most so called INDIAN families.........Somewhere she needs a break

doesn't she.......y is this? y are men so? men in this generation r changing...god only knows whether they

r????coz its said tat a man's true personality cums 2 light only after the age of forty..........Me being a daughter of

such a mother, not able 2 do anything...howmuch ever i try & make my father 2 see sense...how can they luv

their so called better halfs wen they cant respect her.....i believe in luv can exist only if respect for tat individual

exist...So wen do indian women liv such lives?I sometimes tel my father tat I wil never ever choose 2 liv wit a

man like him............i think its true but v indian womens....WILL WE QUIT........... Do share ur

th8s......................................

thanx didi to post this eye opening post.
thanx a lot.