I know guys and gals flirt but in the past he has acted on it and that is what is so hard. I know this has been years ago but it really took me along time to trust him again and so I am always suspicious. I hate this feeling, it makes me nuts. He told me he knew it was wrong and said nothing happened and I know it was just texting but I always wonder in the back of my mind if I hadn't stumbled on this what would have happened. The girl he was texting doesn't have a whole lot of friends and I think is lonely and you get flirting and lonely together who knows what will happen. Thanks For your input.