If you're not comfortable doing it, DON'T! Throwing the money thing out there makes the whole thing worse and it sounds as if it's become degrading. It also sounds as if you may just be a bit young and not ready.
uhm,he has asked me a few times and i've...kinda ignored it.but once i made the joke of saying o,sure,i will...but only if u pay me.
and its come up again,and i didnt hesitate to say yes,and added with payment.i mean, i think i made him feel bad when i said pay me,which totally gives me the wrong image,but im kinda young..and..we've been together for a yr now...but..i dunno,i might react all bad to the whole 'oral' thing.and i DONT KNOW HOW TO EVEN DO IT! HELP....
If you're not comfortable doing it, DON'T! Throwing the money thing out there makes the whole thing worse and it sounds as if it's become degrading. It also sounds as if you may just be a bit young and not ready.
I think this should be in the "sex and sexual health" place...
go search there, and you will see that a lot of women don't like giving oral.
Good advice Ace. This does belong there. We've had a lot of talk about it. Just do a search and you will find a lot of reading. Then if you want you can start a thread there.
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