Thread: Oh how I've missed you.....

LOL. One of my favorite subjects! I've talked about him and agonized and analysed and finally just decided to accept that he is what he is and the relationship is what it is and I have to just let go of expectations. He's the LOML because he is adamant that we are not bf/gf and really when you get past 40 it does sound kind of silly.

We each have a long history of a lot of hurt and some abuse, so there are good reasons to take it slow. It's funny that even when we are nowhere near each other, people always assume we are together. I do care passionately for him but it's not a usual or typical relationship. We're starting a business together. Neither of us has an intension to ever marry again but we do have a monogamy agreement. I don't know that we will ever even live together, we're just letting this evolve and seeing where it goes. I'm happy to be living in a time when we have the freedom to create whatever turns out to work best for us.