Tell us what you are stressed about????

**chica** · 05-05-2009 08:12 PM

Well lets see...I might have cervical cancer.

I got into a car wreck a month ago, and now the bills are starting to come in. And I hate dealing with Insurance Adjusters, I think they are scum...at least this one I am dealing with isnt very helpful.

I also am tired of everyday stress. I love my life, and my family. But I am starting to hate my job, I work as a 911 operator, and they are cutting back our hours, which means I lose money, but I have a second job as a 911 dispatcher, and can work more hours to make it up...BLAH...oh and did I mention my car seems like it wants to break down every so often, and its almost paid off...

I am thinking of hiring a lawyer to deal with all of the insurance . I want to know now if I have cancer or not. I want to stop dealing with everyday stress and just live life one day at a time, simple enough HAH!!

Oh and to mention, my stress is causing me to have more of a short temper than I normally have. My boyfriend is being nothing but supportive while dealing with his own life, and I snap when he tries to help me....

so yeah now I feel even more worse...

blah blah blah...

end rant

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-05-2009 09:35 PM

haha, so you want to know if your alone?

I have downsized my business, and so that's great right? But sucks cause i can't sell any houses yet, even though I CAN SELL. PLus? I picked up two new listings.

I put a flat mate in my house that after 3 weeks, tried to buy drugs and house it at my place wt? So I am now (having kicked him out) locating someone else, plus? I can work naked again.

I am finally on tablets to give up smoking but they make me feel grouchy a little.. plus? It will help and lead me to giving up.

I am also on antibiotics after getting a flu 6 weeks ago ( In America) that i can't shake the bronc, side and weakness plus? I don't have Swine flu well i dont' think so that started after, haha.

My Property Manager has gone away so i am doing her job and my job and it's stressful, plus? I am finding ways as a result to get a few let out quicker, more money in my pocket.

My car, ok, so i need to find the battery lol, it's in the boot i think strange place i know, as i want to put water in it and make sure it's ok, cant afford to pay someone to do it for me, plus? I don't part with cash huh.

So...... point?

WIth all "bad" is good,

With all stress, there is a solution....

The pluses outway the negatives.....

So madam, can you find pluses with all that you wrote? I bet you can...

CW

**Suitcase** · 05-05-2009 10:56 PM

"The question is what are you stressed about?" Hmmmm!

Emotional, Physical, Psychological, What?

Emotional: Where am I at with someone I care a whole lot I about?

Physical: Never felt this way, (React!) ever, and I don't know how to except it? (Reaction!)

Psychological: Trying too move forward but having a very difficult time of doing it!

Therefore, Stress!

**acerousme** · 05-06-2009 12:04 AM

I am just...stressed.

Last night at work, nothing was finished, so I was left to pick up the peices. THAT makes me so mad.

Boyfriend situation sucks right now....

Im getting sick...

Im SUPER far behind on housework.

aaaaaaaaaand the icing on the cake??
My dog was almost eaten by a stupid wolf last night. THIS IS GETTING REDICULOUS

**chica** · 05-06-2009 04:00 AM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

haha, so you want to know if your alone?

I have downsized my business, and so that's great right? But sucks cause i can't sell any houses yet, even though I CAN SELL. PLus? I picked up two new listings.

I put a flat mate in my house that after 3 weeks, tried to buy drugs and house it at my place wt? So I am now (having kicked him out) locating someone else, plus? I can work naked again.

I am finally on tablets to give up smoking but they make me feel grouchy a little.. plus? It will help and lead me to giving up.

I am also on antibiotics after getting a flu 6 weeks ago ( In America) that i can't shake the bronc, side and weakness plus? I don't have Swine flu well i dont' think so that started after, haha.

My Property Manager has gone away so i am doing her job and my job and it's stressful, plus? I am finding ways as a result to get a few let out quicker, more money in my pocket.

My car, ok, so i need to find the battery lol, it's in the boot i think strange place i know, as i want to put water in it and make sure it's ok, cant afford to pay someone to do it for me, plus? I don't part with cash huh.

So...... point?

WIth all "bad" is good,

With all stress, there is a solution....

The pluses outway the negatives.....

So madam, can you find pluses with all that you wrote? I bet you can...

CW

You are right, there is always a silver lining, but I am also at the point where I want to give up and walk away from alot of stuff.

But then again, thats not really the smartest thing to do.

What kind of car do you have? And coming to America? What part did you see?

And your job? It will always get better

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-06-2009 04:14 AM

Yep, me knows that rubbish i also want to so many times,.... many.... but like you I know that would be silly.... we cant.

Well I had a Celica, it lived out on the road, my ex-husband took the garage and would not share.....

When i left him, i bought an MX5 because i am in real estate, the bank thought it would be good but you know, the repayment aren't. But at 45? why shouldn't i finally have a car that the roof comes off? Especially after 7 and a half years of not being a part of anything yet married, yet my car lived on the road?

America? Just out out Oklahoma, and i shall return soon and then again and then within 12 months permantely if he will still have me, lol.

And as for my job? I had three appraisals, got two and the third will go with me as well if his business decision is right. So you are right, it will get better.

And for someone with alot on her shoulders? You have positive thoughts, good for you...

You made me smile, thank you for your support, and back at you.

CW

**chica** · 05-06-2009 04:31 AM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Yep, me knows that rubbish i also want to so many times,.... many.... but like you I know that would be silly.... we cant.

Well I had a Celica, it lived out on the road, my ex-husband took the garage and would not share.....

When i left him, i bought an MX5 because i am in real estate, the bank thought it would be good but you know, the repayment aren't. But at 45? why shouldn't i finally have a car that the roof comes off? Especially after 7 and a half years of not being a part of anything yet married, yet my car lived on the road?

America? Just out out Oklahoma, and i shall return soon and then again and then within 12 months permantely if he will still have me, lol.

And as for my job? I had three appraisals, got two and the third will go with me as well if his business decision is right. So you are right, it will get better.

And for someone with alot on her shoulders? You have positive thoughts, good for you...

You made me smile, thank you for your support, and back at you.

CW

Thanks, seems like you have a good head on your shoulders as well.

MX5? Mazda? I love convertible cars, I want one..

LOL Let me tell you about my car. Its a 1999 Pontiac Grand Prix, It has a sunroof, which I love...but it leaks...I bought the car about a year ago. Back in November I kinda blew the engine in it. Replaced that, then the starter went, got it rebuilt. Oh and did I mention the car leaks. It comes from the Control Panel for the sunroof, and from the windshield, and well lets say when it rains, the floor boards of my car has about an inch of water in it or more. LOL theres still more..

And then there was the day at work, I tried to go get lunch for everyone, and I couldnt get the car out of park. The release thingy broke. I had to call the guy who I bought my car from, he sent his mechanic up there to fix it. Also this was back in Feb. And since the engine in my car blew, my car sensors started flashing "low coolant" which means pour some antifreeze in there. Oh and about a month later, I couldnt get the keys out of the ignition. So they had to put a new switch in it

And then I finally replaced the radiator WOO HOO!! Older cars gotta love em. I think I am ready to trade it in

And who is he? If he shall have you?

And thanks...you have a good out look as well

And Oklahoma, a friend of mine is from there? Never been there...

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-06-2009 04:44 AM

lol... your play of cars reminds me of what i can expect.

Tomorrow i will be checking the oil, the battery, the friggen coolant ( cause of you) ha.

Wow 1999 Grand Prix, where do you live? Well done, maybe a bit of a lemon but worth correcting i think.

You seriously made me laugh for which I thank you.

If you wish to see whom he is, visit my page even become a friend !!! he is there, he is special, and so low maintenance, isn't that nice? haha.

I inherited loving cars way ago, like in my 20's....Mustangs convertibles, are my fav, never know Muscle cars one day may be next..

Glad to see your personality, it's kind of well, "good", a better word "awesome" you will get through all the rubbish, i can see that.

Thanks for your thoughts.

CW

**chica** · 05-06-2009 04:49 AM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

lol... your play of cars reminds me of what i can expect.

Tomorrow i will be checking the oil, the battery, the friggen coolant ( cause of you) ha.

Wow 1999 Grand Prix, where do you live? Well done, maybe a bit of a lemon but worth correcting i think.

You seriously made me laugh for which I thank you.

If you wish to see whom he is, visit my page even become a friend !!! he is there, he is special, and so low maintenance, isn't that nice? haha.

I inherited loving cars way ago, like in my 20's....Mustangs convertibles, are my fav, never know Muscle cars one day may be next..

Glad to see your personality, it's kind of well, "good", a better word "awesome" you will get through all the rubbish, i can see that.

Thanks for your thoughts.

CW

I live in Georgia...I live in a small town, that has a big history I love it!

Originally from Detroit, MI...big city YUCK! I miss it tho..

And yes always check the coolant. I bought the car for 4 grand, and ended up putting about 2000 worth of work on it. It seems to be running now normally now...

LOL men gotta love me

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-06-2009 05:10 AM

LOL.. Yep... you can make decisions on your own, and check out your own coolant, and well $4k is cool for that, so $2k is ok as well....

CW

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