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About LinkBacksThat's why I don't talk to people on behalf of other people when it comes to relationship stuff. If two people wanna talk then they should do it directly and not rely on a messenger.
I guess so lynds. She is such a cry baby. Her ex told me all she was doing was balling her eyes out. Typical girl just to get attention from the guy she likes. I know her and how her motives work.at times it makes me want to back hand her because she doesn't care about anyone but herself.but I do care for her and love her very much! I just can't take her lying,attitude,ect anymore.she PMSes 24/7 it seems like.she's always depressed.wich makes me want to yell at the guy who made her that way..well guess what... I did tonight....turns out she lied about most of the things she told me! And I made an a$$ out of myself to him and we are no longer friends because of her. Now I look like the joke. Go figure.
That's why I don't talk to people on behalf of other people when it comes to relationship stuff. If two people wanna talk then they should do it directly and not rely on a messenger.
That's what I told her!but she begged me to talk some sense into him and to see what his motives were.so I did... But turned out he was sitting right next to her....and they had been making out the whole time I was bashing her "Ex".she said there not dating still but I don't care anymore.girls are so full of drama. I love having more guy friends than girls!
That's awful Gigi. I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. I've known girls who are JUST LIKE THAT. Actually, my cousin is just like that. She's 16 and it got to the point where I had to cut her out of my life. She would make up lies about all these guys, get them into fights and then get her girlfriends to feel sorry for her when all the while she's sitting back watching and laughing. She'd also say things to get anyone and everyone to feel sorry for her. It really started getting under my skin. She always said I was her best friend in the world but then she stabbed me in the back and lied to her mother and now their whole family hates me. I have no relationship with that aunt/uncle or my three cousins anymore because of her lies. I think that's probably the worst hurt and she doesn't even care.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
Oh wow....that's bad but to be truthful
She did that to! She lied about having many boyfriends! I've caught her in many lies.
It seems that even though you love her, it may be healthier to cut her out of your life for a while, if not permanently. She sounds like she only hurts you and that's not a good friend to have.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
I think Linds is right. You don't have to make a fuss about it, just quietly back off and leave her be.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I had a girlfriend in high school whose interest in me turned out to be limited to using me to make her ex jealous. He'd show up wherever we went to go out (because she was telling him where we were going!). Sometimes she'd call to tell me he was harassing her and I should call him and threaten to beat his a*s (she probably was over at his house and hoped to listen in). And so forth. I wised up after three weeks and dropped her like a hot potato.
Then she tried the opposite approach. Whenever we would pass each other in the hallway at school, she would tell me how happy she was because she and her ex were back together, he was treating her really well, the sex was incredible, nobody compared to him, blah blah blah. I'd usually just smile but one time I also said something like 'See, aren't you glad we broke up. Now you can be with the love of your life. I'm really happy for the both of you'.
Her reaction ->
She avoided me after that
Good response Tex.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
I'm thinking about some raspberry cake. And reading someone's letter now.
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