What are you thinking about

**ThexMrs** · 10-17-2009 05:03 PM

Originally Posted by WildChild

Well my dear, people work with they've read and what they assume from their experience and a bunch of other stuff. We all make some kind of judgements, it's human nature. The thing with a public forum is that you can't pick and choose who responds. No matter what you do or how nice you are there will be someone who has a problem with it. I had someone standing on a street corner not long ago screaming at me that I should drop dead and we all know I'm just sooo sweet and lovable all the time.

Yes, that's very true. It's not so much what they think of me that I care about. Most people who are new to the site aren't going to know everything that I have been through, they haven't been here long enough and I certainly don't expect them to go through and read my old posts. I guess the truth (though I didn't want to name names) is what Izzy (Isabellacat) said about how I get all the support and attention when I'm upset but she gets ignored. It's not my fault and I responded to it but it does bother me. Also, (I won't name her) but she is talking behind my back and she knows it and I feel that's really immature. If you have something to say about me then don't go to my friend and tell them, tell me. What makes you think that my friend wouldn't tell me anyways? I guess I'm too much of a "stand up" person and I will say what I think and feel regardless. Oh well... I'm not going to let it bother me. It's just stupid.

Yes, you are too sweet and lovable. People just don't recognize it like they should, lol.

You really are great and I appreciate you being there for me.

**WildChild** · 10-17-2009 06:05 PM

We all have our moments. I wouldn't expect anyone to go plowing back through my 5000+. I hope they have better things to do with their time. LOL But I've had times here where I've been really down and everyone picked me up and brushed me off and helped me get my equlibrium back.

We are still getting to know Isabellacat, I'm sure as she shares more of her concerns she will find more support.

**ThexMrs** · 10-17-2009 06:10 PM

We are still getting to know Isabellacat, I'm sure as she shares more of her concerns she will find more support.

That's exactly what I told her. You're rubbing off on me, lol.

**WildChild** · 10-17-2009 07:37 PM

Hmm, well, there are 254 people on the forum right now, Only 4 are members and most of them are reading about sex-LOL, I was a silent reader for a while before I joined. Had been on another forum that was unmoderated and sometimes got really ugly, in fact it ended up being shut down.

**LanaBear** · 10-17-2009 07:40 PM

Should we dare the 254 unregistered readers on the forum right now to join and participate?

**WildChild** · 10-17-2009 07:50 PM

They will when and if they are ready.

**LanaBear** · 10-17-2009 07:51 PM

Originally Posted by WildChild

They will when and if they are ready.

HAHA - trust me, I know! I didn't register or post for nearly 2 years after finding this place.

**ThexMrs** · 10-17-2009 10:34 PM

That there is something in my eye that I can't see and it's painful. I should probably stop rubbing it. Dinner was really good. I'm just waiting to see what else we'll do tonight.

**WildChild** · 10-17-2009 10:36 PM

Hate that when you get something in your eye and can't see it. Have you tried gently pulling the upper lid down over the lower? Or if you have any contact solution (I don't wear contacts but keep some for this reason) use it as an eye wash?