Mean Girls...
I don't understand why girls talk bad about each other. In my case I have a boyfriend who I love being with and am happy.
I go out with him and friends from college who have other friends that went to our same college. Who I guess have a problem with me I don't know cause I don't even think I know them. We watched a game at a bar during the day this past weekend and I heard the next day from a friend these girls were calling me a at a party they were all at that night. I don't know why considering I have done nothing and I do have a boyfriend.
We didn't go to the party cause we just wanted to stay in that night. We are not even at college anymore I live in Chicago and have no ties with any of these girls from college. I actually had a serious boyfriend at the college for 2 years so how do I " it up"?
It just hurts my feelings and I guess I just don't understand why I would be talked about in this way. Any reasons these girls would say such hurtful things??:confused
Maybe it could be because they were jealuos of you. they all know you are a better person inside and out and cant stand it. it makes you more attractive. Just ignore them. they want you to be negative like them and once you are the won! DONT give them the satisfaction
Originally Posted by bittersweet7
Thanks Lizzy,
I do try not to let those people bother me especially when I have done nothing to deserve it. It just makes me feel like we are in highschool or something again I'm out of college when do these things stop, it feels so childish. I appreciate your comment it does make me feel better I know I can't let ever little thing get to me I should just live me life and these girls should live theirs and leave me out of it!
Childish is definately the word.
I agree, it's pure jealousy your with him and one of them wants to be, or you look better than her, I would guess.
Smile in that knowing. And, never let jealousy get in the way of the way you think, just smile in the knowing.
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I agree with the ladies above, they're jealous, it's childish, so don't worry about it.Sounds like they've got nothing better to do than to pretend they're stars of "Gossip Girl" or something of the like.
Some people talk bad because they just want to make themselves feel better that way and it's mostly based on jealousy. Don't take it too personally.... it's usually from others who are'nt really your friends anyways. Recently I got talked bad about by complete strangers....I was walking somewhere and these two women at the bus stop were talking smack about me as I was crossing the street. I heard one of them say " Ewww look at her fat b*tt.." .... LOL I looked at them and they were way bigger than me. Go figure,they're just jealous of me and well what they said just made me laugh. Down the street I got hit on by a few guys on my way home anyways. Them? Don't think so lol.
Not to generalize but after growin up around women and having much more female friends then male, I have noticed that women just seem to be outright vicious to eachother, and often over petty stuff.
Guys will mess with eachother and talk and what not, but it just seems like some women aren't happy until there is emotional damage done by what they say or do
Nah I agree with you.Not to generalize but after growin up around women and having much more female friends then male, I have noticed that women just seem to be outright vicious to eachother, and often over petty stuff.
Guys will mess with eachother and talk and what not, but it just seems like some women aren't happy until there is emotional damage done by what they say or do
Girls can be psycho, in ways that I haven't seen (yet) from any of my guy friends.
Just look at many of the beauty, fashion, and social trends designed to prey on the insecurities of women in the name of financial profit.. It's not uncommon for women to be the driving forces behind those trends.
Some chicks just like to divert the attention away from themselves incase they are the ones that will be labeled instead. It is a natural human defense mechanism of "I will get you before you get me". If some girl walks by and gets hit on they may be like "oh look at her trashy clothes what a s that's totally why she is getting hit on" (even if the girl is not wearing anything inappropriate), while they are sitting there all glammed up with fake nails, enough hair spray to put someone into anaphylaxis, hooker styled makeup, and clothes that are so tight and lacking that you can see the goosebumps through the fabric. I have seen it happen at school on many occasions and I just do not understand why they bother with their petty remarks. Very immature, very pathetic and childish...women are real nasty creatures sometimes.
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