Love??

**smiley414** · 02-13-2010 12:30 PM

hey everyone! with tomorrow being valentines day, i was wondering how everyone felt about guys. i've never had a boyfriend before, so obviously my valentines day isn't going to be exactly lovely. but anyway, do you girls think that there really is a perfect guy out there?? and if there is, what would he be like for you??

**Hopeless Dork** · 02-13-2010 12:41 PM

I don't think there is a PERFECT guy out there... who'd want that anyway? No one loves a robot

I do think there is MANY guys out there that can compliment your life and take your happiness to a whole new level. The key is being open to that kind of love, it may come in many forms.

I think when you set your goals for your dream guy -- you should keep your expectations to character and the way they make you feel over... he will have x color hair and x color eyes etc.

I think too many women hold out for this notion of a prince charming... and almost any guy out there with a good heart has an ability to be that, if they find a girl they want to be that for.

I'm with the man of my dreams, I am more attracted to him than any man on tv or that I meet on the street. He gives me butterflies and makes me feel special. He is the match for me because he is understanding and listens to me.

Everyone has different needs and finding someone that is able to fill them... is worth more than anything in the world.

**PJhavinfunagain** · 02-13-2010 12:52 PM

I'm certainly not perfect so I can not expect any guy to be. If we are lucky we find someone whom we compliment and who compliments us. Dh and I both have our downfalls but when one is struggling the other is strong. It has helped us immensely in our life together. We love each other tons! Do we drive each other nuts sometimes and want to throw the other under a bus? Well maybe not under a bus but there are some days.. LOL!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-13-2010 01:11 PM

If you search for the perfect partner, you've got a check list.

What is that? He must be, and look like, and have.....................

You'll never get to know the person inside and consequently, if you miss that part, then everything else is visual, income, likes and dislikes.

The inside, says, values, morals, being me, does she / he like that?

If you like the person who can be 100% themselves and there is common values, morals, grounds, laughter, communication, sexuality and a few interests then you got a good opportunity of having a good partner.

CW

**Isabellacat** · 02-13-2010 01:27 PM

I feel everyday should be like Valentine's Day. It's not only a day to admire a lover but also a day to remember your loved ones I think.

There's no such thing as a "perfect" guy also...... alot of times you Love other's for their faults.

**flaviana** · 02-15-2010 10:06 PM

Your perfect man is near you.. but you don't see yet!
Don't search... 

**Disco** · 02-15-2010 10:13 PM

Perfect exists. I believe in it. I believe there's people out there who can make you feel like you don't want or need anything else. You're happy and satisfied with what you've got.

**Goodgirl93** · 02-24-2010 04:22 PM

First of all,I do not believe in perfection.But I do believe in finding the guy/girl that is perfect for YOU.As HD said,who wants a robot? I think 'flaws' on a guy makes him that much more unique,and sexy.

You need to set expectations,such as,what do you like in a guy,what color of eyes,hair,height,ect.Figure out what you are attracted to,and go with it.

My guy,in my opinion,is perfect for ME.That being said,I think he is everything I could ever want in a man,he has the whole package,the looks,the personality,the heart,ect.I couldn't ask for more,and though I certainly have my flaws,he does not look at them as flaws,he thinks its cute,and he accepts me for who I am.Technically,I wasn't even looking for a guy,somehow we just totally clicked,started casual talk,talked more and more,realized how compatible we were,and it carried on from there.I am so grateful.

You don't need to look for your 'Prince Charming' for him to come along,be patient,and its a guarantee that you will find a loving boyfriend.

**pink rosa** · 02-24-2010 06:08 PM

Honestly , men are cruel and mean . But when you find one that cares for you , tender , loveing & sweet... it's the best feeling and most beautiful feeling . When you find someone like that , you will be happy , if he is "perfect" for you or not...