Thread: And the jerk of the year award goes to...

I had hung out with a friend (male). We started watching a movie together, very innocent. When he put his hands on me I pushed them away and reminded him of my boyfriend. He ended up forcing himself on me that night. When I told my boyfriend at the time he said that I had it coming because I knew he liked me and I should have known better.

The worst thing I've done to a boyfriend would be cheat. It doesn't matter that I was drunk. There is no excuse for it. I never told him about it though. I couldn't face seeing him devastated. Selfish? Probably but at least he never had to feel the pain. I went through hades with the guilt. I still regret it to this day.

My ex wanted me to stay together with her as her friend/boyfriend/father to her unborn child after she made the decision to reconcile with her husband and let him get her pregnant in the process. Apparently I was good enough to make her happy, please her when she wanted it, and play surrogate father, but not good enough to actually be with in an "official" capacity.

I think the worst thing that i've done to someone that I cared that much about was give up on them. After finding out I was being lied to for a couple years and basically strung me along, I totally shut myself off to them. Even after she went through a hard time of her own that made her grow up a bit, to me, at the time, she was beyond redemption and I refused to be there for her. She ended up bouncing from one relationship to another, she now has a kid and lives in Vegas in what seems to be another rocky relationship. Not to say that my being there would have fixed things, but as one of her closest friends I know that totally discarding her didn't help her situation.

Oooh let's see. The worst thing that a guy has done to me? My ex in high school broke up with me a week or so before his graduation (I was a junior) because he was going into the Air Force and he "didn't think it would be fair to either of us". He slept with my best friend at the time 2 weeks later, and they carried that on for a couple of months. I didn't find out until 6 months later.... after I had gotten back together with him.

The worst thing I've done is probably break up with someone because I liked another guy. Granted, it's always better to do that than cheat or something, but I'd been with the guy for almost 2 years. And he pretty much worshipped me, but he was such a clinger and it drove me crazy. I knew nothing would happen with the guy I dumped him over, but still. I felt pretty bad about that one.