Thread: lapdance novice...

Originally Posted by iluvyouze

heyo,
so i'd like to give a lapdance to my SO but i've never done that before and i'm kinda nervous...any hints/tips for what i should do? i know he'll be open to it i just don't want to look silly doing it. thanks! <3

You won't look silly in his eyes!
Tips? Dress ( or undress...) as erotically as you can, pick music that suits you, and tell him he's not allowed to touch until the music stops!
Watch his face...

You won't be nervous if you don't make a big production out of it... 'i'm about to give you a lapdance, babe!' puts pressure on yourself to perform, just working up to a lapdance is a win-win situation for you AND him.

When he is seated... be a little ways away from him, either sitting across the room or standing against a wall... ask him if he likes what you have on, make sure you have his attention.

Flirt with him, pose seductively, turn around while showing him the outfit, bend over, if seated you spread your legs and ask him what he thinks of your panties... just a tease... build some anticipation.

If he makes a move towards you tell him to stay put

You can get down on the floor and crawl to his lap while looking him in the eyes, or just sexy walk yourself right front and center to him.

When you are close you can move your hips from side to side... lap dances are not about americas' best dance crew, breakin II moves... you don't have to be worried about being in step

Caress your own body... starting with the least intimate places first... keep him at a distance for a while...

Climb on his lap, face him, still moving your body like you would sexy dance in your car to a song you love when no ones watching lol, except on his lap...

Grind your hips on him.. scoot away and let him look between your legs..give him peeks at your breasts..

You can slide yourself down his body and to the floor where you sit on your feet, rub your head in his lap.. shake your hair over his thighs...

You can turn your body around and slide back up facing away from him, still moving, letting his hands run over your body, running your own over your body...

Once your back in his lap you can grind around from that position...

You can bend at the waist and put your hands on the floor in front of you, with your knees on either side of his lap... giving him again, more views, opportunities to touch you...

Lather rince repeat, its all about being sensual, being a tease, giving random body contact, flirting, and wiggling around.

You really can't do it wrong, as long as your moving, giving peeks and using your body to massage his in ways that are both visual and physical