Thread: He says he missed me or misses me but...

OP, you did the right thing. Like jns said, yours in not really a BF/GF relationship, but more of a FWB.

How old are you both? With men, in most cases, age also plays an important role when it comes to commitment. Seems like he's playing with forces beyond his comprehension nor control. Glad you backed off.

You know what you want, and you seem like a strong woman for standing up for yourself. This man is not worth crying for...move on, dear.

Originally Posted by caterpillar79

OP, you did the right thing. Like jns said, yours in not really a BF/GF relationship, but more of a FWB.

How old are you both? With men, in most cases, age also plays an important role when it comes to commitment. Seems like he's playing with forces beyond his comprehension nor control. Glad you backed off.

You know what you want, and you seem like a strong woman for standing up for yourself. This man is not worth crying for...move on, dear.

hi, thanks for all of your support. I've been really depressed. and crying a lot, thank god Im with counselling and medication right now. he disappeared. never called back not even to say goodbye or explain anything. I left messages on his answering machine, emails, etc. and nothing. no reaction.
He said he loved me me and we were happy together. We are both 41 years old. yes, I explained to him all the things that bothered me but he never confronted me or anything....just sent that stupid message saying "it's a good idea to think about all this, I'll miss you" may be it was true he wanted to experiment with me and see if I went to a swinger club with him after sharing all his fantasies with me every weekend...