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Reply With QuoteSame here Tex.Originally Posted by Tex
There's an awful lot of wonderful people of all ages which makes it that much more interesting.
I'll have been here for a year in another week or so. I've wandered away at times, but I always return.
I think I've seen enough pictures to pick at least a few people out of the crowd. I don't know how comfortable everyone would be spending time together face to face, considering some of the things we talk about and reveal in these discussions, but I think it could be fun.
At least I can say this is certainly a fun and intelligent forum. Probably the reason why it's also the only forum in which I participate these days. Not only are there some good discussions publicly, but I've also gotten to know a few people very well through private messages and offered and received advice, and I'm thankful for that.
Same here Tex.
There's an awful lot of wonderful people of all ages which makes it that much more interesting.
There will always be boundries, but making love is so different, than having sex, let's face it. CW
I doubt I would recognize anyone here as I'm fairly new.... except maybe from a pic on here.
Would I like to ? Sure , why not.. even if just to thank them for their support or constructive critisim..
And 7 years ago, in another world, another time , lol.
I did get to meet 11 internet friends,(plus their families) that I had " met " online, though a chatroom, not forum and we had " Known " each other for several years, had talked on phone and voice on the net.
We considered each as " Family", Sis's, bro's, Adopted Kids .. Anyway 3 of us had birthdays in August & Sept. So We planned a " Birthday Bash " here in the Seattle area. 2 came from Texas, 2 from Las Vegas, 1 from Austrailia ( Bendigo, he stayed 2 weeks here and visited other chat Family in other states during her USA visit ).. 1 from Ohio,1 from Oregon, 1 from New York and 3 were from washington State.
What a Blast it was !! We had a BBQ at the lake and almost got thrown out of the Park .. Hehehehe
That was only due to us B~day Gals (2) and the one Guy had control of the Whipped Cream spray cans both chocolate and regular .. and we played a game where ... Wherever we sprayed a person, the person of opposit sex next to them had to lick it off .. Related or not .. Yes we Behaved (mostly ) as there were kids there..
Then we came back to my home and played Truth or Dare Poker .. ( Adults Only ) I must say it was the first and only time I ever frenched a Woman..
It was Fun meeting Chat ppl.. And took almost 1 year to plan.. We are most of us still in contact minus a couple that passed on or have moved on to less " Net Lives"..
Everyone would recognise me as I'm a big white cuddly tiger. No, not really. But I would have no probems meeting any of you. You have all been open with me and me with you. In this way I suppose we have all been "intimate" with one another. We have gone further with one another than we have with some of our partners! Love to you all xx
Interesting point Thomas. It is rather sad that so many people find it easier to open up incognito, so to speak, and talk about things that they cannot discuss with the people that they share a physical existance with. I am coming to see that a large part of that is making it safe to communicate. I'm getting quite an education with this. I was in a relationship with a man that I was deeply, passionately, connected with and there were problems - big ones. That deep connection made it very hard for us to openly and freely share, It seems that should be the other way around but I think seldom is. I'm moving into a new relationship that is very different, This man was raised in a different generation and with a very different attitude and has had a lot of training as a life coach and some in tantra and other areas. His constant questions are; how can I support you in this? Do you feel safe to share this? How can I help you feel safe with it?
Instead of defensiveness from him, I get encouragement to openness and acceptance, this allows me to be open at an entirely new level. We talk for hours and have so much to share, but weren't firing on all cylandars sexually, it was so easy to talk to him about it and then to discuss what might be going on that we both seemed to have our energy closed off in that arena. I've never known a man who was less defensive sexually and it sure makes a difference. This has gotten me thinking (everything gets me thinking) that time online sharing with all you good people has also helped me learn the value of being more open. We share so many stories that really come down to people unable to clearly, openly and safely express what they really think and need.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
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