Thread: Ladies do you email naked pic's of men to your female friends?

If it were just a joke and you both knew that and had had a good relationship then no problem. But, because of the previous history, I'd say that is was extremely disrespectful. Sorry, but the guys a jerk and get rid. Like I said , sorry to be blunt!

i agree with cw and thomas, it obviously hurt you. And i dont think you should suffer any more than you need have. you may discuss it or simply move on. I feel for you here, that must have been pretty hurtful when you found it. My reaction wouldnt have been calm . You obviously love this guy or you wouldnt have put in so much effort, but dont forget there are two of you in this relationship, and you can put yourself first sometimes. x

I actually find this quite upsetting. with posts like these i always think about what and how i would feel if my own boyfriend did this - and i would certianly be soooooo hurt and upset in this case.

you say that your relationship has been rocky over the past few years with, amongst other things, a loss of respect. well this is definitly that! To me respect means an absolute heap in a relationship. without respect - you dont have a loving and caring relationship.

I dont even see this as 'guy banter'. especially not with his caption he put underneath it. You say your over 40 - im assuming your husband is of a similar age to you? If so, i would have thought he would be old enough to know better.

I am somewhat confused here and feel people are reading into something that does not exist, or at least are accepting an idea that a husband has written something wrong that could easily be mis-construed as an insult or simply a "male thing"...

If the attached message had said he would love to awaken to this pictured girl INSTEAD of his wife, then sure, it would be an inexcusable insult. Isn't anyone aware that men say these things constantly when they see a pretty girl...? It's a male thing that does not go away...

Sometimes when hubby and I are cuddling he opens his cell and shows me messages and pictures from his friends and I never find anything explicit to intimate exposure, thank gosh. He does have a model-like girl wearing only leather and the fore-caption asks why men love leather. Then, below the picture is captioned "...because it smells like a Ford truck !"

Two years of "rocky road" would be hard to deal with and definitely cause insecurity. Yet, love and marriage is not about "ME" as it is really about "WE", isn't it...? Spying on a person's cell phone is indicative to a tremendous lack of trust and it's obvious that some sort of therepy is needed to repair damages created, if not already too late...

I feel saddened for the rocky road, but what he wrote in caption is trivial to the real problems at hand and these are what should be addressed..."together"...

Sandra_does