Communicationn or Cumunication
I'm curious how many of you let your partener know that you are about to orgasm and does he do the same for you. My guy tells me it's a big turn-on when I tell him that I'm cumming. Although I can usually tell, I also appreciate him letting me know when I'm giving him oral.
Sweet, what man doesn't want to know that he makes you orgasm, it's a feeling of accomplishment, and it makes him feel like a man.
I don't know if you need to state the words " I'm cumming" you can show alot in expressions, movements, non verbal but, intimate reactions including, breathing, that is more than a turn on I believe than words... That's more real, words are words.
Same for Oral.
Take it to the next level.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I don't know if I can form sentences alone words during climax. The women I have brought to climax seemed equally incoherent. Grunts, screams, stifled screams and heavy breathing: yes, but an ability to put words together: no.
i like verbal feedback....(oh yeah, talk dirty to me!!!) --}-
hello all, just thought I'd offer a guys opinion:
I can't speak for all guys, but personally, one of the main ways that a woman can push me over the top is to give me lots of feedback on just how she likes to be touched, kissed, rubbed, etc. until I know her sexual combination by heart & can satisfy her better than she knew was possible...
Correct me if i'm wrong ladies, but I have found that b'c all women are different & enjoy different things, the key to blowing their mind is in "tailoring ur sexual techniques" to match her individual desires, rather than acting like "THE MAN" who thinks he is the God of sex who "KNOWS" what all women like B4 he meets them, & will TEACH HER what she likes. I work const. & was listening to some of em say. things like "I just lay the pipe", & even picked me b'c I said I love going down on "my woman". I just laugh to myself, b'c I don't care if ur hung like Seabiscuit, if all u do is monotonously pound her w: no noise & a stone face, I could make her forget his name.
I think that while a girl does want a man to take charge & b the man, she also has to know he is present w: her, & connects w: her mind body & soul. Just like some posters said "guys like to hear u cuz it makes us feel manly", ladies like to know that u r focused on them, that they're special, & ur having sex w: them rather than "ON THEM".
I'm sure there's exceptions, but I like words until they're no longer necessary.
Sandman24
I agree. Being requested to can sidetrack me.Originally Posted by jns
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I Love it...
To me it adds to the all sensory,' High'!
"Cuminication"
LOL...nice analogy.
I like sandman's approach, more men should think like that.
My SO also thinks the same, but the problem with him is that he also acts in the opposite way, as if just having sex should be enough. So, when one has this approach but shows otherwise it cannot really work, it's confusing. We have no communication at all during sex anyway, so to answer to the OP: nope.
Most of the time I say when I am about to orgasm. I have no idea why I do that, but I think its my way of saying please keep doing whatever it is you are doing lol
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
I like giving the feedback, and getting the feedback. My last fella never made a peep most of the time. Sometimes I had no idea...and I didn't like not knowing. Sometimes I'd think "heck I'd have stopped 20 minutes ago if I knew he had finished already!".
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