at what point?
at what point can you seek sexual gratification outside.
I've moved your thread to lounge, as it's not a question you would ask your DoctorWhich is what the sex forum is for.
But, are you suggesting when in a relationship?
My take on that, is never. If you are not happy in your current relationship and can't fix it, you walk before you play around....
Why cause pain on the other person by cheating? Walking is enough pain as it is... but at least it's moralistic...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Oh my gosh - exactly! Never!Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
Not clear that walking causes less pain than cheating - it depends on the situation. While I won't cheat for reasons of my own, I would not view negatively someone who did under the following conditions:
1. Their partner is consistently denying them sex and this denial is not do to a physical condition of some sort.
2. Their partner isn't suffering from some short term mental stress / trauma.
3. They have made every reasonable effort to do what their partner wants in life and in bed.
4. They have tried to talk to their partner, and have been ignored, or their partner refuses to seek counseling or any other source of change.
Other than that - I also realize that people are human and make mistakes. I wouldn't consider it OK, but would forgive a one-time transgression. (including in my spouse).
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