Hot oil rub.
Rose petals (not red as they stain sheets) scattered on the bed. I use yellow as the scent is pleasing
Gentle kisses on his or her neck.
Combined with Caresses
Dancing together
Prepare a meal together (prep. and cooking can be quite fun, and spicy!) Pun intended
whispering your desires to the OP
Holding hands while going for a walk.
Plan, DATES.. (mabey lunch) when you leave work/other schedules, to be (totally) with them. (turn off phone, email, computer).
Picnic in the livingroom, or an evening under the stars with or without soft music.
Candles..
Ladies..If you are comfortable with doing, a touch of your scent behind the ear.
the list goes on,
Care to add any of yours...??????