Thread: txting

If his txting has changed in behavior recently, it could be very possible it is someone he doesn't want you to know about.

When I was "Johns Mistress" at first we texted very little as we were getting to know each other. Then after a month or so we texted constantly, but only during certain hours when he was on his way to work, at work, on the way home or evenings after his dinner & his wife went to the bedroom to watch TV. He and she watched different shows, had different interests so they spent evenings separately, Most of the time.

Certain hours were " off limits for texting" with him and that was Dinner time or anytime he'd told me there were family functionss or BBQ's with neighbors or stuff like that. It was a Science after awhile, but we kept it up a full year.

I can give you a few hints on how we did it or how to see if your suspicions are correct. this based on being the one he was texting and responding to mine.

1) Having it on Vibrate when it's just you and him alone together,Especially if he used to keep the ringer on before.

2) Checking the "call/ txt" ...When with you or in range of you seeing it ,but not responding right back, as if to answer an important question

.*** The old Flip see who it is and Close technique but can't reply for fear of you asking who it is.
And if asked he'll shug, just a friend/ buddy/ wrong #.

3) Taking his phone with him at all times, never leaving it just sit somewhere.

***This happened once in our early relationship, he left phone on charger in living room, went to bathroom, I'd texted and the screen lit up, wife saw it saw my name & asked who " my name was ". He just replied I was his Auto Parts friend telling him about a sale on an Oil change that week.
After that is when we set times of text no text and he kept it on Vibrate and on his body or within reach of him at all times.

4) When he is texting and you come into the room or near, he finishes the texting quickly and closes phone.

5) After a txt ( or you thinking he has one, like sitting next to him and it vibrates) Him ignoring it, but then asks you to go get hime something.. This gives him time to tell the person Not right now !

6) If he looks at the txt while near you and only types a few letters. Like enough to say you too or talk to ya later .. ( u2 TTYL) It's letting the person know you are near.

There are so many more little hints that someone is hiding something.

HOW to Find out what is going on ? After you have made a Determination you believe something is going on !!!

1) Ask outright, who's bugging you on the txt honey ? Problems at work, friends ? You are getting alot of texts, should we change our #'s ?

2) Say you read/heard about there being a Re-call problem with the phone (Name and brand) and offer to take it to get it fixed and swap phones for the day. If he says NO , you may have some worries.

3) Depending on the company you go thru and who's name the contract is under, you can ask for a Paper Bill from the company, It will show all calls to and from yours and his phones.

** this is how I got caught texting by my kids, Lol. I didn't know how to text and had a phone that you had to push the #'s so many times for letters, and we were on a pay per Text thingy from my Son's work. $60 later and a Huge 8 page printout from my son, got me a ENV3 phone and unlimited texting ..

4) If you have Cell too and notice him texting alot, text him from another room from your phone, ( like the kitchen when he's texting the other person from the livingroom) right after you text him , ask him a question and after sending it walk near or let him know you will be in the same room in a few seconds.. He will try to get the text to him done quickly, so may respond to you on accident.

*** This happened to me right after we had been together, he knew he needed an excuse for being gone so long to his wife and had just texted me .. " Gawd youre Sexy and I Love you Baby Girl" and then another text was " Do we need anything from the PX hun " ?

I just texted back .. Ummm Wrong woman Honey.. Got an oops back and I knew he had to explain his time away for so long and keep in touch with her.

5) Stick to him like GLUE, or stick to his phone like glue.. Be where his phone is as much as possible. Make it uncomfortable for him to have time to Private Text.
** This may also get you two closer if when together you both give up your phones while you are spending TIME Together .