Oral Sex

**JRod** · 07-12-2010 11:32 AM

I've attached a poll. Call it market research!! Ought to be interesting!

**ItsASecret** · 07-12-2010 04:13 PM

Not a turn on for me but I am not disgusted by it nor do I see it as a 'chore' so I will continue to do it for him. He knows that I do not crave doing it or willing to throw him on the bed in order to do it but I am not going to say no if he is to ask so I suppose that is the best way it can be for that particular situation. If I see him happy then I am happy.

**Allie602** · 07-12-2010 10:39 PM

its a lot of work - jaws gets tired, neck hurts, back pain, taste pre-cum and cum horrible. Used to do it to please my bfs - after getting complaints about lack of enthusiasm, not being able to go more than 15 min without fatigue, dissatisfaction because I didn't swallow, I realized that men are essentially selfish and unappreciative and not worth of the work so i stopped doing them. I know, I know, lots of male and some crazy female comments about not being able to get a guy bla bla. I'm upfront and honest about my preference and the guys who consider it a deal breaker move on and chase down some girl who convinces him that she loves them, gets him addicted and then, BAMM, cold turkey.

Lot of women feel the way I do but do them to get the guy where they want them. When they get married get the house, a kid they give them very infrequently and eventually, BAMM, cold turkey. I think that if men were not so centered on their pleasure and easy to become addicted to bj, they would not be so easy to manipulate with this one act. It is kind of sad and funny.

BTW any man who does not give me oral sex is dropped in no time - I only get orgasm with clitoral stimulation and if I don't get one he don't get to have sex with me.

How do I do it - lucky to have good looks, self confidence, good profession, recognition of what I have to offer and a healthy self respect. So ladies if you want to brake the pattern of enslavement to the penises of jerks, go to school, be successful, look good and don't be afraid to say what you need. You'll attract a different type of man. My man - I may even enjoy giving him bj's galore, since I am good at them (didn't tell him). But, I have to wait, if he proves to be a keeper, that's when I'll pull out all the stops. Better to surprise a good man than to manipulate a jerk. So, that's my 5 pence.

**Mes T** · 07-12-2010 11:12 PM

It's a turn on for me to see HIM turned on, which is the sole reason I do it. Yet I wouldn't call it a "job" because I do get great satisfaction from seeing his reactions, and I always initiate it, he never asks. Wasn't sure which poll option that fit though.

**LanaBear** · 07-13-2010 12:07 AM

Originally Posted by Mes_T

It's a turn on for me to see HIM turned on, which is the sole reason I do it. Yet I wouldn't call it a "job" because I do get great satisfaction from seeing his reactions, and I always initiate it, he never asks. Wasn't sure which poll option that fit though.

That's pretty much me too... He thinks I can hear him unzip his pants anywhere in the house because I'm about ready to pounce in no time at all. I love it, but I do get pretty well rewarded in return.

**stressed** · 07-13-2010 04:41 AM

I love it and do it almost every day. Even though, at this point, it has become a "job" I do normally love it because the best part is that he loves it. It's very rewarding to do things for your man and everything is just great.

Only downside is that "my turn" occurs about once or twice a year.

**Rediscovered** · 07-13-2010 06:33 AM

I love it. But mostly because of *who* the penis is attached to--I wouldn't love it on a stranger or someone I'm not so passionate about~~

And when you love it, it shows and becomes even more of a turn-on for both partners...and it's just one part of a wide variety of things we do that bond us together and make each other feel good.

**penguy** · 07-13-2010 08:07 AM

I'm a guy, so replace "on my man" with "on my woman", but mark me down for #5 (or #6). Love it. LOVE it. Everything about it, the taste, the feel , the response. Everything.

Alas my wife has no interest in going down on me, but that doesn't dampen my enthusiasm one little bit.

**snuffie** · 07-13-2010 01:15 PM

I love it!!! completely and utterly love it, would much rather give a him oral that recieve oral and the whole way too!!! Such a turn on for me!! The whole act, the action, the taste, the reaction!!!