Help! Dont at odds at what conclusion to come to and what do I really say to him???
Dating a man for (2) month. I have been to most of his family gatherings, he says he only wants to date me and very interested in a relationship. Brought up meeting my son. However, he continues to have ties with exgirlfriends he chats with me about. Said today he will be going out to birthday dinner with exgirlfriend. Wanted to know my feelings on it? If I did not feel comfortable he wouldn't go. Obviously he wants to go, so I told him by all means go and follow his heart. I'm confused about what is really going on here. I have never been able to keep relationships with exes. I am silently angry and a little hurt here, as I am actually falling in love with him. What is really going on here? Please advise.
I know exactly how you feel! Exes can really be a pain for us, grrr.
Some people can actually be friends, JUST friends, with their exes. While I don't understand it, I do accept that it can happen. Sounds like your guy is friends with her but already, after a short 2 months, values his relationship with you above anything else. Otherwise he wouldn't have asked for your opinion!
My advice to you would be to sit him down and just talk about it, about any concerns you might have, mention that you don't keep in touch with exes, and just let him tell you a little bit more detail about his relationship with her to put your mind at ease.
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