Presenting Tex's "Clitical Thinking"!

**kristalyn_04** · 09-20-2010 03:01 PM

OK, so we discuss BJ's a lot on this forum, not let's turn the tables and talk about woman's pleasure. Men, share your experiences and tips. Women, share what you like.

Tex, you just share your usual witty wisdom!

**Texinator** · 09-20-2010 03:21 PM

Here is what I wrote in the other thread...

Originally Posted by Tex

At Clitical Thinking, I'll be discussing and demonstrating my CEV system:

Communication - every woman has different preferences, and those preferences may even change from session to session, so find out what she likes and do it
Enthusiasm - even the best skills won't do much good if you act like you're about to fall asleep, so act like this is what you were born to do and you can't get enough
Variety - an encore can be appreciated but don't make the tongue in and tongue out the same day in and day out, so change things up a bit and surprise her

This is the road to paradise.

Even though it is meant to have a humerus tone, I'm serious about the approach itself.

Communication. Every woman has her own preferences, and those preferences can change over time. What worked on one won't necessarily work on the other, and what worked yesterday isn't guaranteed to work again tomorrow. Verbal communication is the best method, but a man should also keep an eye for other clues, like how her body moves, what sounds she is making, and what her face is doing. That way you'll find out what works for her and what doesn't.

Enthusiasm. What could be better than having a woman allow you to be so up close and personal with her most intimate area? Vaginas are beautiful, and the taste shouldn't be an issue with a healthy woman. In fact, it can even taste pleasingly sweet. It's a wonderful experience all around. So show her that enthusiasm and how you like to bring her to orgasm with your mouth and fingers, and your appreciation of her is sure to be appreciated.

Variety. A vagina is not a combination lock where a specific set of moves is always going to open the door to an orgasm. No matter how good certain moves can be, always repeating them will take away some of the effect. So change things up a bit and try out different moves in different sequences. Don't surprise her to the point where she loses focus, but enough to keep her entertained and to show that you're thinking about what you're doing.

Disclaimer: Tex, Clitical Thinking, and CEV, are not responsible for any broken noses or busted lips that may result from a wildly bucking pubic bone.

**kristalyn_04** · 09-20-2010 03:26 PM

Originally Posted by Tex

Disclaimer: Tex, Clitical Thinking, and CEV, are not responsible for any broken noses or busted lips that may result from a wildly bucking pubic bone.

LOL you should put this in your signature Tex!

**kristalyn_04** · 09-20-2010 04:11 PM

LOL

But in all seriousness... ladies, how often does your man go down on you? How often would you like him to?

**p3375** · 09-20-2010 04:26 PM

Hmmm. Ok - have to dig back in the archives on this one.
When we were first married, my husband couldn't get enough sex, including frequent and enthusiastic trips 'down south'. I enjoyed giving back the same. We both loved oral. maybe we did it 3 or 4 times / week in addition to anything else we could come up with. This lasted about a year, and all things began to fade. But yeah, I love oral. Especially from someone who pays attention to how I react and is able to change to meet what I need at the moment.
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**ItsASecret** · 09-20-2010 04:27 PM

how often does your man go down on you?

Usually anytime my clothes come off. Or if I am wearing yoga pants and watching tv he likes to pull them down and go to town for a minute or two since there is no battle with tight jeans or belts.

How often would you like him to?

Meh every so often I guess. It does nothing for me arousal or orgasm wise so I mainly ask because I know he enjoys it. Just because I am nowhere near an orgasm from it does not mean he should not be allowed to play around. Every so often though I find it feels really good after I have a shower so that is usually when I will push his head down there.

**kristalyn_04** · 09-20-2010 04:42 PM

For me, I've never been able to orgasm from intercourse. Not sure why, maybe haven't had the right guy lol. But I can from oral all the time, or from finger play. Sadly, not many men like doing it.

**ItsASecret** · 09-20-2010 04:56 PM

I'm slowly starting to orgasm each time I have sex. No idea why it took about 2 years to get some sort of consistent results but rubbing my clit has been doing it for me. Oral though no chance. I need a fair amount of pressure on my clit to have any initial potential to cum but with oral there is no way a soft tongue even pressed as hard as it can will be able to mimic the feeling of a finger pressed up against it. The gentle 'tongue wags' I cannot even feel even when super aroused. Maybe the lack of feeling any 'feel good tingles' while he is down on me is the reason I simply do not care much for it. I wish I could orgasm from it a few times just to see if I genuinely do not prefer oral or if it would be my new favorite thing lol.

**purplehaze** · 09-20-2010 06:43 PM

Its the other white meat!!! sorry I couldn't help myself

**Texinator** · 09-20-2010 09:07 PM

It is a subject for which I have a great deal of enthusiasm... because it is an activity for which I have a great deal of enthusiasm. If I think about it, there are really a number of reasons make me love performing cunnilingus, eating out, going down, or whatever you want to call it.

For one, even though I'm not the most romantic man in the world, I still think it's incredibly erotic and intimate experience. Here I am with my head between her thighs and my face is right in front of her most private of areas. Not only is she letting me tease and explore her with my fingers, but she is also letting me kiss, lick, and taste her. It takes a certain amount of trust to allow a man in that position.

The view has certain aesthetic qualities. All the possible combinations of inner and out labia - even of pubic hair or lack thereof - means each vagina is unique in its own way. I think they all look wonderful, from the small ones neatly tucked away behind a slit to the big ones with large and luscious lips. Then when you part them, they unfold like the petals of a delicate flower that is ready for some loving attention.

There are the other sensory experiences. Touch... the heat of her thighs and vagina radiating against you, the slippery wetness of her arousal, and the tenderness of her clitoris, vulva, and beyond. Even any hair - from stubble to bushy - adds to the sensation. Taste... from sweet to slightly salty to nothing at all. Sound... the way her breathing quickens and her gasps and moans louden as she comes closer and closer to orgasm.

Yet if I had to pick just one reason for why I find Clitical Thinking so wonderful, it wouldn't be the intimacy of the act or the physical experience for me; rather, I would say the simple act of giving a woman an orgasm is what does it most for me. While there are other ways to please her, for very many women oral sex is the best way to achieve that orgasmic release. For whatever reason, I find a woman feeling such pleasure to be incredibly rewarding, and each orgasm that she enjoys is also a source of excitement and happiness for me.