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Love or Lust at first sight ?
When i first met my bf it wasnt love at first sight. I never thought of us ever even dating. For him i think it was lust at first sight. The tables turned and we ended up falling in love. Do you guys believe in love or lust at first sight.
Hope in Every Heartbeat
Prolly lust at first sight is much more common..
am sure it is . i think i can count on one hand how many ppl i know that have actually experienced love at first sight.
Hope in Every Heartbeat
Pretty sure, I've always gone with lust, that is there is chemistry and love the conversation, or flirting, then I want to jump him, however, refrain
I think with this man in my life though, I definately had chemistry by the end of our 4hr date, but the conversations were perfect all throughout and when he held me, I felt as he put it "safe", it was the first time I ever felt emotions attached, not just chemistry... Loved him every day since, 9 months later... So maybe there really is such a thing as love at first sight.
Prior to that date, we were having dinner and he was the Chef, we knew the other owner, so they all joined us for a drink.. I vividly remember seeing him walk towards our table and his eyes, just drew me in, kind, soulful and he smiled... The next two hours we only talked to each other, it was "this is it, this guy is it", I gave him my card and asked him to call me, lol's... he did, the rest is history, he's moving in next week....
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
CH : In your case that is way closer to love at first sight than my experience with my bf. ( Congrats btw) . In the beginning i didnt have any sparks with him. I never considered him as anything more than a friend. We actually were friends than enemies then friends again and finally started dating. Its almost 4 years later and i love him more today than i did four years ago. Even though i didnt experience love at first sight am happy to have found my true love ( corny but true)
Last edited by DRoxy; 10-03-2010 at 12:59 AM. Reason: mispelled word
Hope in Every Heartbeat
That's so sweet
But, that too is true love, because you weren't in lust nor was I, it was something else, wasn't it that attracted us to those people and them to us, perhaps us? The inner person
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
So true. Its nice to know that they are with us for us not only because of lust. I guess we are pretty lucky to have the guys we have. We all have our ups and downs but we know they are keepers.
Hope in Every Heartbeat
It's an interesting topic.. We've discussed many a time, how sex equals bond equal emotions and all of a sudden everyone is in love
Yet, the amount of problems in their relationships, make them un-happy, still claiming to be in love.... even cheating, but I love him...
I do think there is someone for everyone, be it first boyfriend, friend that becomes a boyfriend, or last boyfriend
It's good to see someone who "get's it", and is so happy, yeah like me, lol's....
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
No... I don't believe in love at first sight. Lust, yes, but not love. I believe you have to know someone, REALLY know them, to fall in love with them. It's the inner person we fall in love with, isn't it? Not what's on the outside or based on first impressions. I think you can have chemistry with someone and a connection upon meeting them, and if you are lucky (like our dear CW here), you will get to know them and eventually fall in love with them. But I don't think that can happen upon first meeting the person, you don't know them yet, so how can you be in love? Just my opinion.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
i agree with you kristalyn. some people are shallow though and say they are " in love" , when in reality they are just in love with whats on the outside. i like keeping up with myself but am happy that my bf knows what i look like when i am not made up and he still loves me for me. it takes time to make a relationship work and actually be "in love"
Hope in Every Heartbeat
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