After two years, I finally had orgasmed for the first time during sex!

**asiangrace** · 10-03-2010 12:52 PM

I finally came. If you have read my previous posts, you know that I'm sexually frustrated. Intercourse is usually painful for me. However, last night, while my boyfriend was going down on me, I came and let me tell you...it was the most amazing orgasm I have ever felt. I have no problem reaching an orgasm if I'm doing it manually, though. Having my boyfriend bring me to climax was the most thrilling moment ever. We've been together for two years and this is the first time. It's nothing he's doing wrong, I just have a finicky body. boo hoo.

We followed that with intercourse and I was able to come again. I was completely relaxed after my first orgasm.

I just wanted to share some tips to women who have my problem (not getting any pleasure from sex). I have a hard time relaxing during intercourse, which makes everything more difficult.

Having orgasmed before intercourse really relaxed me completely and I was more than ready for another one. We propped a couple of pillows under my hips which provided a better angle for both of us.

I'm just really excited about this. I've been so frustrated with sex and almost have given up on it. This just sparked some new hope, though.

I hope my experience sheds some light for any women who may have trouble relaxing or finding pleasure during intercourse.

**kristalyn_04** · 10-03-2010 01:17 PM

YAY!!! Congrats, hope there will be many more orgasms to come (no pun intended... oh wait, yes it was lol)

**jns** · 10-03-2010 02:15 PM

grace, congratulations on going to a new level in your relationship. If he is good, he will do his best to give you one or more orgasms before penetration. This should help on your pain issue as your body will become more flexible for having sex. Most guys seem to need some maturity and directions to get their gfs to orgasm, or at least be very observant. This usually takes some time and seasoning. In sex, you can feel very vulnerable and it takes a lot of work to relax. This is normal. Good luck as things go forward from here.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 10-03-2010 02:39 PM

woot woot! Let's have an orgasm party!!!

Hehe!!!

**kristalyn_04** · 10-03-2010 04:01 PM

A "cumming home" party? LMAO

**WildChild** · 10-03-2010 07:43 PM

Come again? and again and again!
Good for you. This is exciting.

**LadyC** · 10-03-2010 08:34 PM

Good for you!!! I remember the first time after a couple of years with hubby I was able to cum and it is a wonderful experience!!!

**jenn89** · 10-03-2010 10:10 PM

Congratulations! I agree, it's a truly special time when you have your first intercourse orgasm. :-)

I think you have hit on something important. When my fiance gives me an orgasm during foreplay, it relaxes me and makes it much more likely that I will have an orgasm during intercourse. I think a lot of girls are like that. So maybe you've found the key!