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    On a percentage split, which do you find yourselves having more.....slow passionate, romantic, lovemaking sex or headboard slammin, dirty talkin, porn movie type sex? Maybe safe to say that MOST encounters Start out passionately with the exception of angry, makeup, one night stand sex but how often does it finish that way? For us it's about 90/10 and I'm wondering if my gf would prefer more of the lovemaking variety. She says she's good with it the way it is, so just wondering if it's true that Most women prefer the more intimate type or is that a false stereotype?

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    Most of the time I like the slow passionate sex, but there are days when we can just go at it and pant, sweat, and be louder. I think my bf would prefer the more aggressive style though.
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    I do like balance as well. But if I were to choose one over the other, I'd go for a slow, loving, passionate sex. I really orgasm intensely that way.
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    We are probably more aggressive than the other, but either or is fine with me. As long as we both enjoy it, then I'm fine with it.
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    With me and my fiance it is 100% "slow passionate, romantic, lovemaking sex". I can't picture us doing it any other way.

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    I'm a fan of long, slow, and passionate myself. I love sex, but I love intimacy more.

    Then again, my version of "being aggressive" in bed generally just involves me just taking charge and calling all the shots.

    I don't think that's technically "aggressive" so much as "assertive." But I'm a very gentle person by nature - what can I say?

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    I think the rougher it is the more passionate it is. Instead of being a controlled spill of emotions, it feels more like a -need-.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little_Miss_Me View Post
    I think the rougher it is the more passionate it is.
    I like that!!
    Sometimes I'll ask my girl before hand "do you wanna make love tonight or do you wanna F#$?" lol. If it were up to me it would always be the latter. But hey, I wanna make her happy too.;-)

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    Definite slow and passionate most of the time.....but there are those in betweens of aggressiveness.......me likey both ways but my main is the slow and passionate!!!

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