Wow!!...If my man only knew!!!

**JRod** · 10-18-2010 02:59 PM

Ladies what is the ONE thing (yes I know there are dozens haha) that you wish EVERY man knew about women? Doesn't Have to be sexual. Or it can be:-)

**ItsASecret** · 10-18-2010 03:30 PM

Sex related: If only my man knew that just because he sees a woman "get off" from oral in 30 seconds in a college orgy porn clip, or reads about a chick getting off from oral in seconds that it does not mean I will! - he actually knows this but he always seems so frustrated when things on print or screen just so happens to not apply to me lol.

Non-sex related: If my man only knew that I am not kidding about not caring about games. Your Elf level do not care, your mage spell list is of no interest to me, whether or not you should take sword A or B? I will zone you out! lol arrrgg

**WildChild** · 10-18-2010 04:02 PM

Jrod you do come up with interesting topics!

This is a toughie, it changes. But being a woman who has spent a fair amount of time working with men in "men's" work - be yourself.
You don't impress by being all macho (at least not positively). I'm far less bothered than most men I've worked with about doing things like going into crawl spaces or up in attic rafters. I've worked with men who get the heebie jeebies over bugs and spiders but who turn around and diss women for being afraid of the same things (which I'm not).
In general it's true you men are physically stronger and I for one, really appreciate that, especially when the strength is offered to my need. Women have other strengths and not all men are stronger than all women. Its so much better when we can appreciate and admire each other's strengths and value rather than being judgemental or disregarding. You guys don't have to put a big defensive, macho show - we'll still love you, even love you more, if you aren't afraid to show some weakness or acknowledge that at times two working together can do a better job in life than each alone.

**Hopeless Dork** · 10-18-2010 04:41 PM

I wish they knew how very easy it was to make us feel special and how equally easy it is to make us feel like we don't matter and to choose the former. Acting like you don't even notice the super hot girl at the next table over = makes us feel special.... staring over at her the whole night while pretending to stretch = makes us feel like you'd much rather be at her table. Why some guys make their gf's/wifes feel like in order to ogle a girl that isn't the slightest bit interested in them is beyond me.

Taking 2 seconds to tell your chick she looks beautiful will make her feel special all day, Taking 30 seconds to send a text letting her know you are thinking about her, again... special all day. I'm glad that my guy gets it though, and because he does ... I make him feel special in special ways that he appreciates

**JRod** · 10-18-2010 04:46 PM

Y thank you WC, that's quiet a compliment coming from You:-)......If I may add, I once heard this in a movie, perhaps y'all can speak on this as well, while not forgetting the original question. Guy in the movie said all women want is comfortable shoes (and lots of em I'm sure haha), mind blowing orgasms, and a great circle of friends. Now I know I could get thrashed for assuming this to be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but.... But I'm talking general without getting all deep. Just on a basic level perhaps. Like us men with our cold beer, football, and some sort of grilled meat product.

**WildChild** · 10-18-2010 06:07 PM

Originally Posted by JRod

Y thank you WC, that's quiet a compliment coming from You:-)......If I may add, I once heard this in a movie, perhaps y'all can speak on this as well, while not forgetting the original question. Guy in the movie said all women want is comfortable shoes (and lots of em I'm sure haha), mind blowing orgasms, and a great circle of friends. Now I know I could get thrashed for assuming this to be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but.... But I'm talking general without getting all deep. Just on a basic level perhaps. Like us men with our cold beer, football, and some sort of grilled meat product.

Well, yeah for many of us women that would about sum it up, except as HD said we need the special man in our lives to let us know that we are special to him (and not just once in a lifetime).

Ummm, I don't see any sex on your list.....

**mirage7360** · 10-18-2010 10:57 PM

I would say that we are not machines, I had a nympho boo who cheated and was a porn feign. I kno thats alot. I dont think I could ever please him.

**lizzardb63** · 10-19-2010 06:22 AM

Totally agree with Hopeless Dork all the way!

I wish they knew that just because you don't orgasm during sex (sometimes its just not there or you have stress or other things on your mind) that it wasn't good. My boyfriend beats himself up if I dont have the "big o" and things he was horrible. No, just because I didn't orgasm doesn't mean it wasn't enjoyable!

**JRod** · 10-19-2010 07:34 AM

Originally Posted by WildChild

Well, yeah for many of us women that would about sum it up, except as HD said we need the special man in our lives to let us know that we are special to him (and not just once in a lifetime).

Ummm, I don't see any sex on your list.....

Sex was included WC...."mind blowing orgasms"......I was referring to WITH a man haha.