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    Hi ladies,

    Got into a discussion about this and wanted some female responses. Generally, do you prefer your man to be dominant or submissive sexually? Just one word answers will do unless you want to expand.

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    Neither. I would rather have someone that is sexually compatible with me and on the same level, unless we are role-playing.
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    This is tough! Completely depends on the mood... but more often then not, Dominant, nothing too serious but most of the time he just needs to make me a new woman! Grrr haha
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    Dominant 100%. I do not in any way shape or form like to be the dominant one. Its always been that way for me and I totally prefer him to be the leader and I the follower.
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    Dominant. Hands down.

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    In the beginning, I would have to say dominant, because I'm still pretty clueless when it comes to sex. But I would think after I learned the ropes, I would want a balance between the two. At times he would take charge and at times I would. Because I think it should be a two way street. He takes control and does what he can to please and satisfy my needs but then I think it would only be right for me to take charge at times, and do what I can to please him. Start kissing him all over or playing with his privates. Do stuff to make him beg a little. i guess my fuzzy handcuffs could come in handy at that time, if I care to use them. lol
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    Varies from day to day. I like a man to know what he wants and likes sexually and, within reason, makes that known. If I'm in to him, I'll be pretty always open to be approached sexually. But he shouldn't have a problem with it if I come on strong sometimes and back him up against the wall, stick my tongue down his throat and go for his crotch or do something more subtle. It should be give and take.
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    Definately agree with wildchild. Sometimes I just need to have my way with him.
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    Both. But mostly I prefer dominant on most days...
    Him being submissive would be nice if you want things to be different from time to time. It really depends on the mood everytime we do it. Although I love it when my man knows what he's doing to me.
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    DOMINANT. Nothing turns me on more.

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