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Reply With QuoteFirst... i am 25. Second, its called discretion. When they don't even TRY to be discreat about it, I feel its a bit rude and that is where women get "creeped out" from it...ya have to be subtle. Just like any other guy of different ages.
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-So is it common knowledge to younger women that when older men are gawking at them that they are not necessarily pervs or nasty dirty old men? Is it understood that as we age the age ceiling that we find attractive rises but the bottom end stays relatively the same. Doesn't make us "dirty old men", it's just in our DNA. So next time you catch a senior citizen checking you out....go easy on the old timer lol. Don't get disgusted or offended. It's not gonna change, just roll with it;-)
First... i am 25. Second, its called discretion. When they don't even TRY to be discreat about it, I feel its a bit rude and that is where women get "creeped out" from it...ya have to be subtle. Just like any other guy of different ages.
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
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Its also not "gonna change" for women to be annoyed, disgusted, being creeped out, thinking that these men are pervs etc. So men need to realize their gawks are not going to result in a "oh my gosh thhhhaaannnkkkk yoooouuuuu" with batting of the fake eyelashes. It is going to up turn noses and have women turn the other way.It's not gonna change, just roll with it;-)
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Exactly Secret- they could at least be a little more secretive about it!
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
I totally agree Lizzard. Did not mean to imply that older guys would like for you to excuse such behavior. As you said, no guy of ANY age should act like a jerk about it:-)
Meh, I know you don't represent the entire male population LOL
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
My bad. Perhaps I shouldn't have said "gawking". How about "admiring". In even the most subtle and respectful way. My objective was just to see if women were understanding of the fact that older guys are gonna admire younger women and don't really want to be viewed as creeps about it since it can almost not be helped. We are primal, visual creatures:-)
Oh yeah we totally understand that. Guys are pigs, lol. jk. ..
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
Cant really argue with That, hahaOriginally Posted by lizzardb63
Change the wording to whatever seems less creepy or weird, outcome is still the same. These young women notice when a man is staring, whether or not he has a blank face a smirk or a 'smile' (women also know that behind that smile is something along the lines of "god babe you are fiiiinnnee") and it is that initial observation of the stare that results in an almost immediate "what a creep" response. You want to admire beauty go admire a current wife, gf, SO etc. These girls are not going to be excited to see an older male looking their way lol in anything but a barely casual glance like your are passing by a person on the street.My bad. Perhaps I shouldn't have said "gawking". How about "admiring". In even the most subtle and respectful way. My objective was just to see if women were understanding of the fact that older guys are gonna admire younger women and don't really want to be viewed as creeps about it since it can almost not be helped. We are primal, visual creatures:-)
There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.
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