What men don't understand about women

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 11-27-2010 12:09 AM

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**CHANDLERS WISH** · 11-27-2010 12:13 AM

Nothing? Only Joking

I tend to think when we are young with definately pick the good looking, hard to get, guy whom really is very much a "not nice person" and naturally, we suffer...

Yet as I've gotten older, especially now in my loving relationship it's clear to see that men can "get us" and can "compromise" and "can" see what we are and all we stand for and respectifully are beautiful to be around..

So thought I would start this thread for those that feel that their man doesn't understand them, see if there is a common ground and see if there is a solution, idea, suggestion, opinion that can assist in changing that

CW

**SidneyAlive** · 11-27-2010 12:26 AM

Well actually i think there are a lot of things men don't understand about women and Vice Versa, we think differently on many occasions, women think more in color whereas men see things in shades of gray, woman may also be more stubborn than men and nit pick..

**kristalyn_04** · 11-27-2010 12:28 AM

Based on the many threads in the "Sex" forum, it seems that many men don't understand their woman's sexual needs/desires. I'm sure the lack of understanding applies to other things as well. I guess people just need to get better at communication, and just listening to their partner. Sometimes it can be a battle getting a man to listen though (no offense to the men of WH, you all are great listeners), but that can go the other way as well.

**jns** · 11-27-2010 12:36 AM

I think that a lot of men don't understand how hard it is for some women to orgasm, but that it is possible if they can take their time and figure it out with their SO. Unfortunately a lot of men don't seem to care about their SO's pleasure.

**Colorado** · 11-27-2010 01:05 AM

I'll never understand why women feel it's ok, to do their makeup while driving. lol
Sure, I've seen the oddball guy here and there, using his electric razor while driving also, but it seems that the odds are about 100/1.

**JustHormonious** · 11-28-2010 12:03 PM

That a roll in the hay doesn't fix everything... If my back hurts, it will make it feel better... Tired feet, he has the cure... Sore neck, he has just the exercise to loosen things up... If I get a pimple, he knows what will make it go away... Something on my mind, he knows just the thing to take my mind off of it...Men gotta love em...LOL

**Hopeless Dork** · 11-28-2010 01:04 PM

*That sometimes we just want you to listen, you don't have to try to fix us, just hear us and hold us.

*That the smallest effort on your part can make the biggest impact on our day, on our mood, on our feelings for you. A little note left on the fridge with a heart on it for no reason, a little 20 second text in the middle of the day to say you are thinking of us-- that you don't need you to roll out the red carpet of romance... that its those little things that make us feel most special.

*That when we ask you if something makes us look fat, that we KNOW we may be asking you to lie to us, that we are having an insecure moment and just need your reassurance. Even if you think telling us we look beautiful falls on deaf ears sometimes... never stop saying it, we hear you, we really do... and it means the world to us.