The shower!
My (our) favorite place came to light about 6 years ago out of sheer desperation on my part. I have had to work around my husband's 3rd shift schedule for years and I was at my wits end with daytime quickies! I needed romance and something new!
Desperate times, demands desperate measures... In my mind anyway! LOL... His job or me? I decided his truck would not leave the garage that night... unless... he was willing to drive off with me on the hood wearing nothing but his hard hat (I said desperate).
Well my husband earned a few points that night... 1 point on his attendance record, and many points from his wife... I can guarantee you that when he is driving to work now he is thinking about his truck in a whole new light...
I candy...hood ornament...same thing...
Look in your garage (his play land), there are many toys that can come in handy... Motorcycle...Boat...Truck...These are no longer just my husband's toys...who needs plastic, not me (us)...
He keeps the garage a lot cleaner now. Win...Win...
Before you talk about what you want ~ Be happy with what you have
The shower!
~Today, any person can fight the battles of one day It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity's- yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse of bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore, live but one day at a time.~
Homes under construction. Especially if the carpet and counters are in. Duck into a bathroom for a quickie at a house party. Hotel balcony.
My husband has a little S10 and it is so exciting in the truck bed because we dont have a garage, and we have a very long driveway, so no one can see us from the road.
A few more.... Our offices after hours, back seat in a crowded parking lot (not exciting if there's no crowd lol), pool is cliche and not very comfortable, on a playground at night (kinda sick). Never done the ever popular mile high, elevator, or golf course haha
I loved reading this thread because it gives me something to look forward to. So far, we've only done it in bed and the living room couch. We tried to in the shower but he is a foot taller than me and things just didn't match up.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
I guess the living room with bending over on couches and tables. Why? because its different and nothing else has really worked out. Kitchen provides nothing much except against counters, the shower has so little room to move along with height differences and me not being able to lift my leg up very high or in awkward positions. We have done it in the back seat of his car but again not much room and I need to be pretty elevated as to not smash my cervix when I am on top of him lol. The next one I suppose we can try is relatively in public, like on a balcony or in the bushes but I am too conscious of being arrested or seen to really put that on the top of my 'things to do' list.
There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.
Tire swing... hehe...
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Tire Swing - That's a good one... But have to agree with ItsASecret: outside, public, handcuffs, a little intimidating.. Or maybe, could be a lot of fun as long as no uniforms are present...
Before you talk about what you want ~ Be happy with what you have
For us it's almost always bed, or a chair we keep in the bedroom that doesn't have arms, so I can be on top of him pretty easily. sometimes the floor.
I love showering with him, but at best that is foreplay. The few times we have tried shower sex we have nearly killed ourselves. :-)
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