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Reply With QuoteWhy would he be miffed? It sounds as though you are very comfortable with your body.
Skinny dipping
I used to go hiking with the gang when I lived at home in Hawaii. There are a lot of small streams and pools where we would go swimming or wading. Many times someone would suggest skinny dipping and we would separate boys and girls, undress and get in the water. Most of the remote pools were on private property but we didn't let that stop us.
It was usually the boys that were shy about skinny dipping. Some wouldn't go in until they were shamed into it by the girls and other boys. I was never shy, but had a strict look but don't touch policy. If a boy tried to touch me when I was naked, he better be wearing a cup because I had a mean front kick. In those days I had zero interest in sex and wouldn't stand for any advances.
The subject of skinny dipping came up in conversation when his brother and sister were here yesterday. I made the mistake of saying that I had done it many times in my younger days. My husband was shocked and changed the subject right away. That was yesterday and I think he is still a little miffed at me. I'm not going to mention it again and I hope he forgets it soon.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
Why would he be miffed? It sounds as though you are very comfortable with your body.
I don't get it.... What's he miffed about? It's your past. Would he rather have you lie? Doesn't make sense (to me).
He married the shy, demure chisaki and found out that she actually has a past. Haha.Originally Posted by chisaki
Such things are best not brought up in mixed company until you have an idea of where people stand on things. How did it come up in conversation and who brought it up?
If you don't want the answer to be something unexpected, make sure you know all there is to know. Skinny dipping sometimes occurred in high school at summer pool parties. I have skinny dipped with others in a mountain stream with ice going down it.
He does know that public baths used to be common in Japan? A long time ago they were not separated into men and women areas.
I actually skinny dip quite often at night time in the summer when it's really hot. I can walk down to the ocean, not many people around the beach in the middle of the night, and it's too dark to see anything anyways. It's fun.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
What beach is that, Kristalyn?
*runs to check prices on night vision equipment*
LOL Tex, even if I told you what beach you're still like 2,000 miles away from me!
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Ooh gee, i don't understand why he'd get upset bout you skinny dipping, im sure most people have done that at some point in their life. i used to do it a lot, like Kristalyn i did it in the ocean at night, there were always other girls and boys there too, we didn't care, nobody did anything but swim..
I talked it over with him, he wasn't mad because I had skinny dipped, a long time ago, he was just shocked that I admitted it in front of his brother and sister. I asked him if he wanted to go skinny dipping when we visited Hawaii, he said NO. I guess my skinny dipping days are over.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
Oooo, i bet you can change his mind some hot evening, haha..
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