Describe your last sex session...

**Arpita** · 12-09-2010 11:57 AM

Friends,

Lets come up with your last sex session..where, how it happened, what was exciting in it? how long it went? and what was lacking in it?

Last night my BF started with passionate foreplay in a city hotel..came down heavily ..i was mad ...my eyes were shut down throughout the foreplay...when we started having sex he came in 10 mins..although i dint orgasm but it was ok..will rate 6 on 10 point scale!!

Cheers!!

**ItsASecret** · 12-09-2010 12:07 PM

In the bed, he was rubbing my back like I asked since that seems to be the only consistent way to start the arousal in me and I really do enjoy him massaging me. He went down on me for a couple minutes, kissed me for awhile, asking me to get on top and we had sex for a bit, I moved my leg so it could stop hurting (short legs while being on top with no strength = pain) and he came. Total time from backrub to clean up 12 minutes, most of which was him rubbing my back. I would not rate it as I do not look at things in that manner lol but there have been times when it was "better" and lasted longer.

**Allie602** · 12-09-2010 04:14 PM

Why are you guys not having an orgasm with these men? Why have sex with men and get nothing out of it? How long do you think you will have sex with them before you get bored and find some else? Do they seem interested in seeing that you get an orgasm? IAS, why didn't your bf do oral until you have an orgasm?

I have a hard time understanding why women get involved with men who seem only interested in their own pleasure and not tell them anything? The only way these men are going to learn how to please you is by letting them know what you want. If they are still selfish, don't have sex with them. It's bad for you and bad for them to have penis centered sex. You guys will not learn how to communicate with a man and get what you need and these men are going to end up in sexless marriages.

10 minutes! a woman doesn't even get warmed up in 10 mins. I can't believe men and women still don't have a clue when so much is known about female sexuality.
End of rant

I had an orgasm.

**SSDS** · 12-09-2010 05:20 PM

My last event was two nights ago when we finally found lubrication that maintains its consistency in water!! (Actually we had it all along just weren't aware of its hidden qualities. Awesome

We started in the hottub and ended in the bedroom. Total time: over an hour and yes, we both came. It was very exciting with the "no gravity-esque" part in the tub :P

**Seeker_Advice** · 12-09-2010 09:14 PM

She called, said her lower back was killing her. Could she come over for one of those massages that I so often promise and she so rarely accepts? Of course, let me set up the newest massage table (best $$$ ever spent on eWay). Flannel sheets in the dryer for ten mintues, almond oil in the microwave for 45 seconds, then the fun begins....I undress her, slowly, kissing and nuzzling each new bit of skin that gets uncovered. Finally, she is naked...I literally stand back and visually take her all in....it is a sight to behold! GOD she is amazing to look at! She climbs up on the table and I cover her with a warm flannel sheet. I start at the top of her back and shoulders and slowly progress down her body. I spend about twenty minutes working on her lower back where most of her discomfort is...it's tight and full of knots, Ido my best to work them out. I'm not a pro, not even a novice..., I don't know what I'm doing really but I sure do enjoy doing it. I work on her buttocks (LOVE IT), then down her thighs, calves and finally to her feet. She is covered in warm almond oil, her skin is glistening and she smells terrific. I work back up to between her legs and go to work on massaging her lips. First the outer and then the inner....like caressing the petals of a beautiful flower! She is starting to squirm now...quite a bit. She tells me to hold the sheet as she is going to roll over...I immediately place my face in her most intimate place and after some oral, she asks me to take off my clothes and "take" her (Her way of saying puck me). I do. She LOVEs long slow thrusts...slow sex as we call it.....it's not long after that a major full body orgasm comes for her. A minor one, at least as far as actual ejaculation, for me (thank you antidepressant meds.). I "collapse" on top of her so our bodies are touching from head to toe (nearly). The feeling is amazing! I am the luckiest man alive.

This wonderful series of events took place just a few hours ago. I am still enjoying the mental after glow. I see her, in all her nakedness when I close my eyes. Wow!

I typed as fast as I could and I still got times out! ARGH !!

**WildChild** · 12-09-2010 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

I typed as fast as I could and I still got times out! ARGH !!

Try using the "advanced" that doesn't seem to time out so fast.

**SidneyAlive** · 12-09-2010 10:39 PM

i can't really describe my last sex session, it was over two weeks ago and like most of the other times i had sex with him it wasn't about me, looking back on it, it really didn't even resemble sex..

**ItsASecret** · 12-10-2010 12:40 AM

Why are you guys not having an orgasm with these men? Why have sex with men and get nothing out of it? How long do you think you will have sex with them before you get bored and find some else? Do they seem interested in seeing that you get an orgasm? IAS, why didn't your bf do oral until you have an orgasm?

I do not orgasm easily, I require a lot of pressure. None of the "light feathery barely touching" touches work with me hence the oral goes nowhere, nice feeling but it is no orgasm inducer. I do not require an orgasm to be satisfied, I do not have the intent to leave a 3 year relationship with the man I love to fish for suitors just to have an orgasm so that is not even an option. He is quite interested in making me orgasm, we keep trying to find a method but nothing works all the time as everyday a woman can respond differently to the same touch. It is not major issue to me, I do my best with having an orgasm but I know that working hard is not going to make it happen so I enjoy the moment anyway.

I have a hard time understanding why women get involved with men who seem only interested in their own pleasure and not tell them anything? The only way these men are going to learn how to please you is by letting them know what you want. If they are still selfish, don't have sex with them. It's bad for you and bad for them to have penis centered sex. You guys will not learn how to communicate with a man and get what you need and these men are going to end up in sexless marriages.

It is had to put a head around but when an orgasm is not the definition of pleasure to a woman, the overall experience is, then it does not equate to a terrible time if no orgasm happens. This is why I tell him what I want and still enjoy it, I like the touching more than anything, he knows this so he touches me a lot. Previously mentioned oral is a nice feeling, I do not orgasm from it as there is no pressure from it so it is not a requirement but he loves it so I let him spend whatever amount of time he wants down there. I can tell him how to move his hands and fingers tell him the pressure needed and he is more than willing to give it a go he is not selfish, I simply do not orgasm quickly. He understand that there is no magic button or switch and that an orgasm does not happen all the time whenever attempted with a woman. Quick 10 minute sex days is not the common occurrence...just the last sex was lol.

**Allie602** · 12-10-2010 04:37 PM

IsASeceret Oh I thought it was just about him obviously he cares. I don't think I would be as interested in having sex so much if there was no big O, even if I loved someone. I am a lot more self-center than you. I am glad you feel loved, I was worried that he did not care about you. Maybe in time when you are older it will happen. But at any rate, you are relaxed and happy and that is what really matters.

**Bubba J** · 12-10-2010 08:12 PM

Last night, started with me caressing and initiating (we take turns). I ended up giving my wife an orgasm while performing oral sex, with a finger inserted in her bottom just as she was about to climax. She loves that, and so do I. It lets me feel her contractions and share in her pleasure in a very intimate way. I finished by masterbating while she watched, which she likes. No actual intercourse. It was quite nice, actually...