chisaki, the important thing to take from this situation is to be open and communicate with your husband. He needs to do the same with you. If you hide things, it will become easy and then there will be too many secrets in your marriage.
I know it isn't easy. You have to be ready for an unfavorable outcome. It's kind of like sending yourself to the principals office or confessing you are not going to be able to get a project in on time to a boss. Being open and honest isn't always easy. But it says volumes about integrity and the willingness to admit fault when needed. Integrity is not so much about doing the right thing when it is easy, but doing the right thing when it is hard.
Maybe I'm missing something here....What is the big deal?
She's 17. Maybe not a legal adult, but she's old enough and she knew what she was doing and she slept with your husband's partner. Not sure how it's anyone else's business or why there's a need for concern or even talking to anybody about it.
Blanche: "No one in my family ever saw a psychiatrist. Except of course when they were institutionalized."
Things, bother people CandyCloud...
Her sister, as much as she loves her, bothers her, for the way in which she acts... And the OP is newly married, and feeling her way, doesn't want her husband to view her as the same, that is why it bothers her.. Fortunately for her, it doesn't bother him, he knows who he has and loves her for her..
In addition, age has a lot to do with it... She has expressed concern that her husband's friend, would get into trouble...
And, getting things off your chest is healthy...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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