Counting Sex!!!
Is it weird that my guy keeps track of the times we make love? We've been together 2 years. He's not all analytical about it or anything but he does count on the calendar on his computer. Says he just wants to me sure we stay on a healthy pace lol. It doesn't bother me or anything but I'm just wondering if anyone else out there does this. Or will admit to it should I say:-)
He must have had very little sex in the past and doesn't want it happening to him again. I've been doing this for a while myself.
It's not bad, but if he's happy with the way things are going he doesn't have to do that anymore, he should just relax and enjoy the time. I think he's a little bit worried about something, either his health or him wanting to have a stable sex life.
Is he happy with the results?
Maybe he's trying to disprove "The Bean Jar Theory of Married Sex" (Google it). Instead of using beans in a jar, he's using his computer to keep track.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
To each their own. As long as it doesn't bother you.
Might it be a sign that he wishes it were more frequent?
Haha oh gosh I hope he's not doing it for bragging purposes... was he by any chance a virgin when you started dating?
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Why don't you start to keep track of how often he brings you to orgasm? This may just be a bean jar theory, unless he is diligent and innovative.
I personally don't keep track on a calander of when I have sex. Not entirely sure why he would be doing this, have you spoken to him and asked him why he does it?
I'm sure it would be understandable if you two were trying for a baby and counting and planning, but other wise I'm not sure..
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Good lord, by now i would have used two rolls of toilet paper to keep track of all the times i've had sex !!!
Haha, kidding, almost..
Chisaki-Hmmm....hadn't heard of the bean jar theory but that makes a lot of sense.
Kristalyn- By No means a virgin. More like a player before me lol
jns- No need to count my orgasms. I have them 100% of the time that I WANT to have them;-) if you know what I mean.
Sidney- That is funny.
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