Thread: what do you consider cheating ?

is kissing someone on the lips cheating ?

When you ask the questions and don't give your opinion. What do you consider cheating rayner?

I think its definatly a way of cheating and leads to more hardcore things . What do you think rayner?

Cheating: Having any sort of sexual relations with someone outside of your relationship, without the consent of your SO.

What do I considered "sexual relations"?: Flirting? No. Kissing? No. Groping? Yes. Sex (including oral)? Yes. Sexting or Phone sex? Yes. Cyber sex? Yes.
Of course there's always some gray area, like if you are married but separated, or taking a break from your relationship. Is it cheating then? What about watching and getting off to porn instead of having sex with your partner?

i think most people would be mad if their partner kissed someone on the lips

Originally Posted by rayner

i think most people would be mad if their partner kissed someone on the lips

Yeah, they would probably be upset about it, but I wouldn't call it cheating. Just poor judgement in a moment of weakness. Certainly it would be something to be addressed and talked about to make sure it doesn't happen again, but I don't think kissing is something that would end a relationship unless it happened repeatedly.