Best Thread Title and Best Post

[JustHormonious]

Your opinion please: If you could choose the best thread title and the best post, which would you choose? Wow, over 220,000 choices!

Best Thread Title: Lost: Sex Drive Found: Boobs (AS)
Best Post: Good thing you're not into shoes, I guess! (Texasred)

You can't pick one of your own!

[kristalyn_04]

LOL... are we going for humor here or whatever we want?

[JustHormonious]

Whatever your heart desires!!

[SidneyAlive]

Geeez thats hard, i need to think about it, Hmmmm..

All the penis size threads are funny..

[Seeker_Advice]

Those that are brief, honest, open and to the point.

[SidneyAlive]

i like this for a post..

"If you're going to play where it's wet...always wear your rubbers"

Hahaha..

[JustHormonious]

So many choices hmmm....

I think for Best Post: BDs response to "I need a bit of support":

You are definitely going through a horrible time......and you have definitely come to the right place. Here, you will find so many women who understand, who are or have been in your shoes and know what it's like.

Sometimes we put blinders on because we want things to turn out the way WE want them to. Don't beat yourself up for trying to make your marriage work. But understand that even if he came back today and said he was wrong, you'd have no marriage left to work out. You lost what a real marriage is back when he cheated the first time. And I'd venture to guess it's never been the same since. Yet I'd also venture to guess it has taken a tremendous amount of work from you in order to make it work. You've done your work, you've given it your all.....and now it is time to grieve, embrace your beautiful children....and know that life has so much more in store for you than this. It does my friend....because this, with him in misery, being cheated on, being tossed aside like yesterdays trash, is NOT where you were meant to be.

He is "in love" with another.... but he doesn't know what love is like you do. He, even with her, will never have the kind of love you are capable of having, because he doesn't understand it. He understands temptation, sneaking, excitement, lust.

Grieve him.....and let him go. Embrace the good you got out of those 23 years....and move forward in your life. There's MUCH more in store for you. And whatever you do, don't ever let him back in. He doesn't deserve you.

Best Thread: Kristalyn's Presenting Tex's "Clitical Thinking"!

This is the thread that got my attention the first night I logged on. It has made me laugh, giggle, blush, and has made me very thankful for the much smaller version of "Tex", that I have at home.. Keep up the good work Tex!

[Beautiful Disaster]

Aw shucks JustHormonius thanks!!! :0)

I gotta say my favorite thread is Mes_T's "Post Pics of Yourself" Thread. That was the first time for many of us that we got to put a face to the screen name. It also gave us a sneek peak into each others lives. The more people shared their pics, the more pics got posted.

Best Post.............I'm gonna have to think on that one a bit, there are so many wonderful posts.

[Beautiful Disaster]

JustHormonius - Have to say your post today to studentmom on the "my husband just admitted he considered cheating" thread was one of my favs. Such true words spoken from true experience and wisdom!!! Excellent post.

studentmom - Your husband checked out of this marriage a long time ago, and you know it. Unfortunately, there is only one adult in this relationship and it's not him. A man that loves and respects his wife and family would come home and want nothing more than to be a part of it.

It doesn't sound like he's present when he's home. So why even bother coming home? Your children need a father that plays with them, reads with them, disciplines them, and loves them. They need a father that is happy to be home. Then, there's you...What do YOU need?

Him using "sex" as the reason for being unhappy is a COP OUT! If he wanted sex he would not be placing his son in the bed with you at bedtime. Your son is being used as his wall. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. Your husband needs to put his big boy pants on and come clean, or maybe he did today.


Today when he told me that he is unhappy with our life, our marriage, and our sex life and has been "fighting within himself to have an affair".
That final statement says one of two things... He has already done this or He has already done this. Again, I could be wrong, but I don't think so. Your husband seems determined to place all the blame of your marriage failing on you. How does that make you feel?


I don't know what I'm asking for here, maybe some advice for how to deal with some of this, emotionally, physically, advice on how to keep him faithful, advice to give up and move on, something... anything... I'm so lost and heartbroken.
You seem to be a very intelligent woman, sit back down with your husband and flat out ask him if wants to remain in this marriage. If you have no communication, you have no marriage...Playing games with someone's emotions is high school at best.

We women are a lot smarter than men give us credit for. Men who have affairs do it because they want to, not because we made them. Although, they would love for us to believe that. Some women do and that's the real shame...You are already living life as a single mom..What does he contribute to this relationship other than his paycheck?

[JustHormonious]

Thank You BD.

Relationship advice is probably a topic that I should should steer clear. Life is too short for all the nonsense. Many women and men ask for advice but honestly don't want to hear the truth. The truth hurts...we've all been there. My opinion is just that, my opinion. The one piece of advice that I would give to anyone who reads this is: Communication is what makes a relationship grow and thrive, sex is secondary. Why as adults can't we talk to each other and be honest? It is such a simple thing, open your mouth and speak!


Best Thread: Life changing experience by:Virgile