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Life changing experience...
Among all of the things that happened to you, what are the events that changed your life for good ?
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Behold the presence of the Father in all beings...
my kids.
There will always be boundries, but making love is so different, than having sex, let's face it. CW
* This Forum, it allowed me to help people, obtain new friends, feed my soul, use my soul, find me and also obtained daughters whom I love
* My future step-daughter, I am finally a friend and a Mum in the flesh...
* Chef Dude - I finally know that true love and workable relationships do exist
* Downsizing my business - I learnt big isn't always best and knowing what to do next, saving your business is rewarding in knowledge of business itself
* Forgoing friends after my marriage break up, and not being able to salvage them years later, the importance of staying in touch
* Kias diabetes, that there is always a positive and always a way around things, someone is always there to help you through
* Passion - the more I add it into my life in all aspects, the calmer and together I am
* Age - the older I get the more happy I am within myself and on the outside,
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I was assaulted and almost killed, it changed my life forever.
If that had not happened I would be living a much different life in a different location with different people. In the end, it allowed me to meet my sole mate and we got married. It's hard for me to believe that the assault is responsible for my present happiness.
Zen is more of an attitude than a belief.
My marriage (at the time)
The birth of my son.
The birth of my daughter.
Being able to find love again after divorce.
* The death of my father when I was 12y old:
All events before and after.
* Meeting a math teacher:
He showed me I have abilities that I didn't suspect
* Meeting Ainhoa and Chahna:
Friends that helped me on my personal development
* The different bosses I had, all helped me greatly
* Parenthood
* Reading "The autobiography of a Yogi"
Behold the presence of the Father in all beings...
* The birth of my 3 children - My children have been my greatest teachers
* The day I met husband and the day I married him
* Finding my faith - The day that I finally understood that when I give something to god, I have to let it go.
* My career
* When the last child left home - Cried for a couple of days but soon realized "Quiet is good". Life does go on after the children leave.
Before you talk about what you want ~ Be happy with what you have
- Becoming a big sister at age 9: My little brother taught me unconditional love, gave me a reason to become someone, set an example and protect him from the things I've had to go through as a child.
- The death of my father at age 16: In the face of devastation I also found inspiration... to carry on his talents and become an artist and creative professional, his work inspired me and gave me strength.
- Breaking an engagement at age 23: I realized that my life with this man was not the way I wanted to live, and I deserved more... I left and went to college, and finally realized and lived up to my full potential.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
Being treated so very horribly by someone not long ago has made me a stronger person..
When a family member I confided in about abuse that was happening to me made the decision to tell despite me begging her not to. I think that was a turning point in my life... a loss of trust, and then having my worst fears confirmed -- my parents reacting the worst possible way (denial). I think that whole situation shaped my low self-esteem, mapped me out as a person that would put up with anything and not speak up for myself.
The birth of my baby. Made me a grown up, though I wasn't quite one literally yet... I became one... in an instant. It shaped my ability to love, with my whole heart.
My weightloss journey... realizing I had the will power, the inner strength to overcome a lifetime of bad habits. I thank God for giving me the ability to find that strength and believe in myself.
And finally, meeting my boyfriend. Being re-introduced to the world of affection and intimacy in a way I'd never previously experienced. Learning what its like to feel loved, the right way... experiencing what it is to feel special and respected, desired and appreciated...took me from a person who didn't really see the point in relationships to a person that see's them as one of the greatest gifts in this world.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
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